I just met a interesting new person, I hope he turns out to be a new friend!

Oh yes I am fully aware of what you are saying Wolveren and you have every right to feel that way. I can fully respect you for feeling that way. But I guess that's exactly where I'm coming from. When I say, take a perfect stranger for example. When you first meet them, they are a nothing to you. Then you think in your mind, I wouldn't mind getting to know that person better. So they you might approach them, him/her or whatever the case may be. At some point, during the conversation, you are forming opinions and things inside of your mind as to whether you will allow that person to come into your personal space or not. There are times when I may give a person a little bit of my personal space, just to see how far they will take it. But then if they begin to misuse it, I would have to cut them off from it. Hope you can understand where I'm coming from. If you read my previous message to the commenter you will get more of a clearer understanding as to what all was actually going on. Thanks for your response. In closing, so far, the young guy has done nothing to make me want to shut him off. Happy mylot!

Yes, I know where your coming from on that and that isn't really bad at all you know. I gotta hand it to you, you're definitely a great person. Particularly there is nothing wrong by being nice to people and opening some space a little. I am nice too and I learned that from my grannies as you did from your mom like what you mentioned from the other comments you made before mine. That is a good thing really no argument in that. I would like to see you keep on doing that for as long as it takes. I see the value in the virtues that you have just shown everyone here and it warms my hardened heart. Come to think of it, if only I had a sweeter heart as you have and then some. There are bitter experiences in my life that has made me so. But I still do smile at everyone and all the time and its from my heart. I just don't make more close relationships with anyone now a days. But anyways it's just me. Keep doing what you are doing it really is great though and you are definitely on the right track!

Hello there Mith018, You have spoken some very profound words my friend. That is why I was taking my time and trying to get to know the person very, carefully. I wouldn't want to jump into an ocean and then find out later on that the water was too deep to swim in then I wound up drowning, do you know what I mean. Even the bible tell us to consider the cost about certain things in life. In other words ,try to think ahead if something will lead you on to a good path or not. I could have easily went out riding with that guy somewhere and then who knows, I maybe could have lost my life. Those kind of chances I don't believe in taking. He and I were both talking about the fact that in this day and age, you really do have to know who is who. Before you can go out there running around with them. If not you could wind up getting yourself into some serious trouble. God bless you friend. Please be sure to add me as a friend. Take care and thanks a billion for your profound words and for sharing, happy mylot.

Hello KyKidd, that sounds like a very good experience that you had and very typical of the way relationships are usually formed when we are in the younger age category. See at that time we all tend to be in closer contact with lots of people. But as we all get older and tend to drift off into our married lives, etc. And start doing out own thing. Well let's just say that some of us don't actually come into a lot of close contacts with people. So therefore close encounters could be darn near impossible. Not to mention how difficult it could be just to even get things on a mere friendship basis. So anyways, I shall wait and we'll see if I happen to encounter him again then will take it from there. At this point I really don't foresee myself seeing him again. Simply because he came to do what he came here for. The mission was accomplished and that was that. Hopefully I won't have to see him again. At least not for a while, simply because of the money involved, hee hee. But than again as I stated earlier. I don't mind paying for something if I'm getting what I"m paying for. take care and have a nice day. Please add me as a friend if you don't mind.