Are you feeling good by taking your revenge?
By jackie_chen
@jackie_chen (104)
China
August 26, 2009 3:36am CST
Well,today let's share the topic of taking revenge.I think there are too many examples in our daily life about revenge,you can see this from many movies,books,basketball stadium,work places,school and many other places,you name it.Probably,you may feel very good and very excited if you vitness how a hero is taking his revenge towards the bad guy,or how your favorite NBA player finally taking incredible shot to win their opponents.
Then,how do you feel if everyone are all for revenge coming,and they hide hatred in their mind,or even live along with hatred for their life-time? And finally,when the hatred inside exploses one day,and it cause hurt,damage,and destroy to others or to the society,then who be responsible for it?
So,share your opinions on it,thank you!
2 responses
@sblossom (2168)
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26 Aug 09
My husband always say life is too short, no time to hate.
every time i heard his saying i feel i'm a narrow minded person.
i did have a few people who hurt me in my past,sometimes when i talked with my husband about the experiences, i said i want to do something to hurt them too.
my husband always persuaded me to forget the ideas.
now I think i became more tolerant than before. I want to forget the unhappiness in past and just choose the happiness in memory.
so i don't agree with any revenge now.
@jackie_chen (104)
• China
28 Aug 09
Wow,your husband is such a great person,you know few people can do this.Actully,I have been also trying to be tolerant,but it is hard and I know I still got a long way to go.And I believe as long as I keep trying,I can make it one day.Anyway,thanks for sharing your idea and have a good day!
@patzel88 (3310)
• Philippines
26 Aug 09
Human being have the different types of ability on how to manage their feelings if we are in the situation of being abuse by others and it is depending to how much damage they have done to us and how to make them feel what we feel.
But in my opinion and my own experiences, i prefer not to see the person who abuses me too much for know that there must be a time for them to realize of their mistakes and they will come to me at the right time and please to me to forgive them.
