Putting a name in on or under a tattoo

@jugsjugs (12967)
August 26, 2009 2:27pm CST
I can understand people having their childrens names on them,but i do not see why they have a partners name on them.What about you what do you think?
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
26 Aug 09
My daughter has a tattoo with her daughter's name but when she was younger she put her own name on her body. I thought it was strange and I said why on earth would you put your own name on your body and she said in case something happens to me I can be identified. As for people who are dating putting each others names on their bodies is crazy because you never know if its going to last a lifetime or not. Then when you break up and start dating someone else they are not going to be happy seeing another person's name on your body. It doesn't make a bit of sense to me.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
2 Sep 09
i never thought of having my own name tattooed somewhere, something "I am Jenn" or something in case something happens LOL. Interesting way of thinking your daughter has. I agree that if I had the name of a ex boyfriend on me, my current b/f wouldnt be happy seeing his name on me all the time. I mean who would want a constant reminder that their spouse was with someone else even though we all know it happens we still dont want constant reminders.
@beesm17 (107)
• United States
25 Apr 10
Yeah I never thought about it like that. Not only do you have to see if but the next person that you are with will have to see it all of the time. I know that I wouldnt want to see my boyfriend have someone else name on them even though I knoe tha he has been with other people.
• Canada
17 Dec 09
Well, I honestly think that getting their children's name put on their body's is reasonable, but getting their partners name on them can be reasonable too, To me it honestly seem's like their committing too their partner even more then they already have. Some people might find it weird, cause you really don't ever know if the relationship or whatever is going too end, or if it even does end. That's just my opinion though! what do you guys think?
@jugsjugs (12967)
17 Dec 09
I think you are right i think it is ok to put your own childrens names on your body,but as for a partner i would never as even if you think your relationship is strong that do not mean it will last forever and if it ends you have a constant reminder on you all the time even if you try to cover it up or get it lazered it will always be there.
• United States
28 Aug 09
i could see doing it but i dont know anyone that has had it done and not broken up with their partner afterwards though.. its the "curse" they say
@beesm17 (107)
• United States
25 Apr 10
Yeah most of the people i know have broke up too, but I never heard that it was the curse. Just an other reason to make sure I dont ever do it. lol
• United States
5 Sep 09
I was talking with a neigbour the other day about tatts and she said they were not something good at all. We were discussing it via relgion wise but to me I feel tatts represent something imporant to us and I feel that is why so many people get them. I have been wanting to get one myself but have not gone thru with it yet:) Take care happy mylotting.
@jugsjugs (12967)
5 Sep 09
I have a small heart with mum on it that is the only one i have.I was going to have the childrens names on the other arm but never got round to it.
@doormouse (4599)
26 Aug 09
i think it's so wrong to have a partners name tattooed on them,i have tattoos and i've chosen mine very carefully,nothing to big or ugly,and mine can be hidden if needs be
@beesm17 (107)
• United States
25 Apr 10
I agree, you should always think about them because them might not be perment, but it will cost A LOT to get it off. I too have choice my tattoos and placements carefully. I can cover them up if I need to.
@chi2nasrin (1101)
• Malaysia
26 Aug 09
I think it is a no no number one, tattooing your partners name on your body. Parents and children is okey but not your partner names. The sole reason is because your partner can leave you (not only when they die), nobody knows if you will really be with your partner for the rest of your life. While your parents or children can never be 'divorced'. For example : Angelina Jolie, Johnny Depp. They got their partner's name tattooed on them and then later had it remove. They are lucky for having the money and they can afford that as it is not cheap.
• Canada
17 Dec 09
Well i think they made a mistake. but not everyone does that! sure you can get a tattoo of your partners name on your body if you been together awhile, thats totally acceptable sure they made the mistake and got it removed but it showed too the partner they truly were committed but it ended bad which is a big dissappointment
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
2 Sep 09
One of my exes actually had the name of his ex tattooed on him. He obviously is no longer with this woman, and now the tat is a constant reminder of her and the heartache she causes him. But she is also the mother of two of his kids. It did bother me slightly that he had her name, but I also knew he cared about me so... Then my ex fiance wanted me to tattoo his name on myself and I told him no to which he got very upset with me for. He couldn't understand why I wouldn't do that as a sign of my love for him. Shortly after that discussion I broke up with him for various reasons. I am glad I didn't tattoo his name on me, but I have a feeling he has mine on his arm.
@beesm17 (107)
• United States
25 Apr 10
I plan on putting my sons name on my side. I dont know why you would put anyone else name on you. Even if you are married there is always a chance that you might end up not being together forever then you have to worry about getting their name off of you are having to explain to everyone.