Dancing is the cure to more intimacy in a relationship??

United States
August 27, 2009 8:37am CST
So over the last 5 months or so my boyfriend and I of 3 1/2 years have drifted apart when it came to being intimate. And when I say intimat, I mean, romantic. So we never really kissed anymore. We did everything else but even when we kissed I didn't get that light headed feeling I used to get in the beginning. And I tried tons of different things to spark up the passion and it didn't work. Well last night I went onto a double date with him boyfriend and my friend and her date and.. omg. It was so amazing. Just dancing and being so close had sparks flying and then we slow danced for the first time.. EVER. It was so special, I felt so in love with him. Its nice to feel 'in love' and not just love him sometimes, if you get what I mean? Anyways so if your relationship is lacking like mine was, you should seriously consider going out dancing because it does wonders getting things back on track :)
2 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
i think you're just so used of kissing and having that strong intimacy that the both of you tend to forgot the basics. i think love is much sweeter when people were into doing petty stuffs because no matter how small it is, the essence of doing it makes one heart so overwhelmed.
• Philippines
28 Aug 09
oh gee..that was so sweet. Oh how I wish I could dance with my boyfriend too. Maybe that is the most romantic thing that will ever happen to me. Though his passionate and expressive, his not much on being romantic. Honestly, I never received flowers from him since were together as boyfriend-girlfriend. :( all he do is giving me a hugs & kisses that suffice the whole cravings for chocolates & flowers from him.hahaha..funny but true. And I daydreaming to have a time alone with him and have a chance for a dance. Hmm..I'm thinking..what if I'll make the first move? Is that ok? well, I don't see anything wrong. He's my boyfriend anyway. Good luck to both of you. Enjoy life..Enjoy love..!