Are you going to find your natural parent(s)?

@beeduzhe (138)
China
August 30, 2009 3:12am CST
As the similar scenes in the old films,one day, you accidentally find that the parents you have lived so long with are not your natural parents.You have no idea what to do but want to know who are you biological parents. As for you, are you going to look for your natural parents?What will you say to you parents now?And if you have decided to look for them,can you insist on it? Share you feeling and your ideas here!Thanks! beeduzhe
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@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
i'd ask the parents i'd known for so long first who my natural parents are as looking for natural parents take time, energy and money. if they would say they have no idea then i would sincerely include my biological parents in my prayers and wish that one day we'd meet. if ever that wish would be granted i would see first whether they would be capable of facing or accepting me. if not then i'd just try to be a friend without really introducing my real self.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
30 Aug 09
Em...it sounds a little coincidental to meet your real parents if you don't look for them, however, it's true that we have to concider whether our real parents will love us.And I favor your idea making your real parents your friends...
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• Philippines
30 Aug 09
Hi bee. It's actually funny that i just finished watching the bee movie a while ago in HBO. And now i am here and answering a discussion by a bee. What a bee day! Well i have thought of this before and i think i will stay with the parents who brought me up. I would be glad if i saw my real parents but i would definitely choose the parents who raise me up. They were the ones who taught me and made a lot of contributions to my character now. So i will live with the one i am used with.
@beeduzhe (138)
• China
30 Aug 09
haha...I think some sane people would like to choose the parents brought them up like you.Maybe sometimes who is our real parent is not important,but we also have someone love us.Knowing that is a kind of happiness. And enjoy your bee day.haha...
@smart44 (510)
• Philippines
31 Aug 09
you know i have an adopted child and we introduce to her her biological parents since i know when she will grow older she will gonna look for her biological parents, now she knows why is with with us. And she is also happy that sometimes she mingle with her true parents and brothers and sisters and she is very open to ask questions regarding her parents, now we don't have problems on how to tell her about her parents because in the younger age she knows.