Thanks those who have hurt you,can you do that?

China
August 30, 2009 10:27am CST
All of us have got hurt inescapablely,some of which are done on purpose or unconsciously.contempt,disguise,cheat,departure,betrayal,scold,beat,for those who have hurt you,who once brought you tears and nightmares,do you still hate them today?or you have got out of the umbrage?could you forgive those who have hurt you?pls give me answer,thanks
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4 responses
@taztheone (1726)
• India
30 Aug 09
Even Though I don't thank anyone who hurts me , I prefer to forgive them. I usually dont keep anything in my mind for long. After all a good human always tries to forgive people. Don't forget that there is a limit to forgiveness
• China
31 Aug 09
yeah,forgiveness is enough,to keep the sorrow in mind will make oneself even miserable.
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
30 Aug 09
Maybe one day I would be able to forgive and thank them. I mean, sometimes, behind the very upsetting experience there is a bright side or a learning we get from the sadness and hurt. I don't know about you but I believe sometimes there is. It is indirect learning, we have to suffer before actually learn something. If that day, when I have been able to learn and see the bright side, and understand how the experience has changed me to someone better, I might be able to forgive and thank them for what they had done to me.
• China
31 Aug 09
hi,klarkine,your response is very impersonal,those who even hurt me deeply but finaly lead a good result may get my forgiveness.
• Philippines
30 Aug 09
well, if you're ready to say it that is. some people prefer to keep it to themselves but deep in their hearts, with out experiencing those, they would have never be the way they are now. as for me, My life is ok but shaky a bit. but i haven't reach that stage i can freely forgive them a few stains still inside..me
• China
31 Aug 09
hi,letranknight,thanks your response.forgiving needs a big heart,not everybody can do so.you are kind and generous.
@EliteUser (3968)
• Australia
21 Sep 09
Hey, I don't really think that I can thank the people who have hurt me. It may be only me, but I just can't do it. Because I know that if I will do it, they will still hurt me in other ways again. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!