Had you ever fighted with your best friend?

India
September 2, 2009 10:33am CST
If yes, then for what reasons? Then you keep friendship again or not? I fight with my friend many times. but we are always friends! How about you my mylot friends?
7 responses
@DCLehnsherr (1042)
2 Sep 09
Hi Crimemonitor, When I was in high school I used to fight with my best friend. I can't quite remember why though, I think it was usually to do with jealousy or something similar. We never made it past a day of not being friends though, and even if we did fall out we still hung around with each other, we just wouldn't speak lol! These days I sometimes end up angry at friends, but I always apologise afterwards and normally because we do everyhting on-line, they don't become major arguments or moments of silence. I have found that I have always gained a better understanding of my friends after a fight because it shows us how we react to different things, and teaches us how to relate to each other in better ways. I do hate fighting though so prefer it when things are all peaceful and happy lol! All the best :) Dranz
• India
2 Sep 09
[b]Hi crimemonitor, [/b] Yes.. I had fought with my friend sometimes. Whenever he says 'no' for good things. When he asks poor excuses, when he dont accepts my great ideas, when he delays when i ask him a help(i will stop talking for 1 week. because if any persons come to me asking any helps, whatever works i have, i stop all those and i will first try to finish my works for them), etc., etc., i will fight for him. But whatever fights i do, i think mostly we will settle down by 3 to 7 days. not more than that. I am still proud of the 3 to 5 friends I have, who never stab my back. I have strong confidence with that! And I am Proud too..
@ucue2008 (926)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
I don;t remember the reason, but until now we are closed. We fight really bad, even my housemate was shocked, but that friend of mine really good. She still accept me the way I am. Happy Mylotting
@nuar_y (279)
• Malaysia
2 Sep 09
I have a best friend, that we've been together for 14 years already. We fought so many times, sometimes it takes more than a month to get back together again. But, until now, he's my best friend ever, that always there in my ups and downs.
@arcidy (5016)
• United States
2 Sep 09
Actually no I have never fought with my best friend before which is great because most people usally have one or two fights with there best friend. Sure we have arguments but never fights. I would hate to fight with my best friend because I wouldnt want to see him for awihle if I got into a fight with him.
@sblossom (2170)
2 Sep 09
I don't think i have fought with my friends in my life. my way to deal with the conflict with friends is to escape. i mean I chose to leave my friends or not contact for a few days. Then the relationship seems cool down. however time can resolve the problem. After the cold war period my friends call me or come to see me again then we all forget the unhappiness. We back to be good friends. I don't know my way is good or not. However i do think friendship sometimes is very vulnerable. We should try to avoid fighting. we can not know what will happen after a fight. So better keep silent when you feel unhappy with your friends.
• United States
2 Sep 09
I had a best friend in middle school and then in my first year of high school. We ended up getting into a fight about something so stupid and immature and we stopped being friends after that. Sometimes I believe I benefited from that because I branched out and talked with people I would have never if I was still friends with her and I concentrated in school and my high school years were good. I finally had a class with her my senior year, we didn't really talk but I can tell she didn't have the same 4yrs I did. We ended finding each other on facebook this year and we talk her and there but I don't think we will be at the best friend status again.