another on the way! :S
September 2, 2009 6:54pm CST
I am a new mother of a boy who just turned one and I am 5 months pregnant, ive never felt so frustrated and lost in my own shoes before. i feel like i get mad at everything and i have no control over it! im always so exausted adn im always worrying about something! my biggest worry now is that i wont accumulate enough hours for mat. leave. My boyfriend that i am living with has no clue what it like to be me and he is complaining that i "nag" too much about everything! the only thing is he has no idea what im going through and it seems like its more work with him here!
• United States
3 Sep 09
It's really hard when you first become a mother and since the baby doesn't come with a user guide it makes it even harder. It has to be even more hard when you're pregnant and have baby. I have three boys 13, 11, and 5 and with the first one I thought I was going to die with everything I had to do and learn. You said it seems like more work with him there, that is exactly how I felt as well. Do you have any friends or family that is close to you that could maybe take your 1 year old a few hours a week? Believe me even those few hours alone help a lot. Even if it is to only take a nap, it really helps.