Perfect partner

India
September 5, 2009 1:10am CST
Can you be honest with yourself about his limitations, or the ways in which he dosen't live up to your idealized vision of what the perfect partner should be?
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@besthope44 (12145)
• India
15 Aug 10
I love my wife who was my soul mate lover for ever.We loved for 3 years and still we love as husband and wife.
@Mike4me (567)
• Philippines
6 Mar 10
Yes of course, when you love someone you learn to accept all his flosses and who the person really are. They does the same thing to us as well. That's how relationships work we learn to accept our differences and work together as a team and work things out!
@kissie34 (2296)
• Philippines
24 Sep 09
Yes of course.. I love my boyfriend so much and no matter who he is and what he is I accept him as a whole. For me, I can say that he is a perfect partner because he has the qualities or traits that most women likes. I admired him for all the things that he had done to me, for my family and to other people.
@falmar (49)
• China
24 Sep 09
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right? If you love him, don't try to change him, love what he is, of course those bad habits should be changed, but never change his personality.
@khayshenz (1387)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I must say that some of the comments in this discussion are useless and off-topic. Anyway, I definitely know that he's not perfect. As long he's the perfect one for me - then that's all that matters.
@23uday (2998)
• India
5 Sep 09
Hi friend, I will be honest forever in my life. For me A good relationship will be maintain for a long time and never broken their relationship understanding nature friendly nature Good attitude mind Good motivation Giving a good ideas. This is my list have a great day.
@misisbau (317)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Oh boy. Ladies, you are putting too much pressure on your partner. There is no "perfect" person out there. Perfection is a myth, it's an impossible word that no one, NO ONE, can live up to. What you can do is this: 1. List down ten of your absolute non-negotiable qualities that you look for in a partner. 2. You partner must meet all ten for him to be deemed "ideal". 3. Remember, the ten absolutely non-negotiobale ESSENTIAL qualities MUST be met. If not, you move on to someone who fulfills the essential qualities. All humans have faults and limitations, as long as that person meets the ten required qualities that you listed as absolute non-negotiable essentials, then, you should be able to accept his other "short comings". Think carefully and good luck.
@zoey7879 (3104)
• United States
5 Sep 09
I'm blessed.. My man just actually happened to fill the role of all that I've wanted in a relationship :)
• Philippines
5 Sep 09
Yes i can. if you love someone, you accept them as they are. You won't ask something that they can't or won't do. In the eyes of a person in love, it is always happiness and contentment. So the little things aren't noticed. It's hard to have an ideal partner because when the real one comes along, that definitely solves it.