my friend calling me day and night because he got dumped

United States
September 5, 2009 11:10pm CST
I deeply sorry for my friend, because he just broke up with his girlfriend, and he was so upset about it. He couldn't sleep and he felt so depressed all the time. I felt for him, and I talk to him last night to console for almost an hour and over. Somehow, he kept calling me while I was at work, and while I need to go to bed. I just do my best to keep him company on the phone. But for while, I really need my rest, and I need to focus on my work. I just told him that I really need some personal time and work time. I could talk on the weekend, and we can even spend some time, hanging out with a couple of more friends, so he would feel better. He felt like that I was getting annoying to talk to him about his personal issue. I wasn't mean like that, I just need my own time too. How should I explain him better?
2 responses
@bigmal12 (57)
• United States
6 Sep 09
Well if you were annoyed, then he should know about it. I mean, life goes on, get over it. Yea you were there for him when it happen, but now its over. Tell your friend to stop crying, and move on. And he cant get mad at you, he needs to get over it. Why is he calling you day and night? You didn't break up with him. He should be calling some other girls, and trying to hook up, with someone new. That is what i would do.
• United States
7 Sep 09
That is what I said to him, and he should find a way to steer away from thinking that girl again. Life just keep on moving, and we should keep on looking for something new. Otherwise, he just still stuck in the past.
@wolf2999 (212)
• China
7 Sep 09
You may introduce new girlfriend fo him.