Would you still marry the same woman ...?

@mobhomeir (7565)
Philippines
September 6, 2009 5:19am CST
Hello friends we understand that married life would be boring and tiresome if there would be no "spices" and trials in our lives. Quarrels a little,jealousies and insecurities are common. The worst would be misunderstandings that sometimes would result to separation... but what about if Contractual Marriage would be allowed in each of our government, Would you rather still marry the same person (husband/wife)every time contract expires? Let's share our honest opinion we'll never just let our partner knows it if the contract would not be extended...pssttttt he he he he he he
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@smileonstar (4014)
• United States
6 Sep 09
hello, Contractual Marriage? what does it mean by that? I think once you get married then it will be married right? if you want to separate then you have to get divorce... can't say this marriage is expire. I don't know some religion but for us here, once you married then you are married.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
I got that my friend...I am just talking in behalf of my country how we look at our way of getting married. Divorce is not allowed in our country. I just mean, what if our government permits Contractual Marriage...somewhat renewable...thanks anyway for responding..
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@taripres (1499)
• United States
7 Sep 09
I mean, why not? If you really love the person, that bullsh.. contract shouldn't matter! I wish they would put a contract on who I can marry, that's the last thing they'll be able to control! I know some countries arrange marriages, which is a piece of garbage as well, how are you gonna tell me who I'm to marry? I don't love them, probably wouldn't even want to mess around with them, then marry, WHATEVER!! Anyway, yeah I'll marry the same person, but we'd have to move cause I aint with the contract thing! Taripre$
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
I respect that my friend...well, what if the woman you love before would say, NO i will not marry you again...what would you do...I am sorry i hope you won't get wrong...this is just for the purpose of our discussions...thanks for responding...
@taripres (1499)
• United States
8 Sep 09
Well, if she chooses not to marry me again, I'll still move and just have to start from scratch! I'm serious about this contract thing, no one is going to make me do anything! I would probably move before it even gets to that point, that control thing is out; is y I work for myself, I'm not good with authority! i know this is just for fun, but I'm not controllable I wouldn't even sign a prenup, cause i know I'll keep all of my money if there are no kids involved, y I pay for lawyer?! Taripre$
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@robert19ph (4586)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
hello mobhomeir, yes indeed. i will marry the same woman if that will be the case. have no plan at all marrying another one. i'm so satisfied with our relationship. sure thing, we have ups and downs but have no problem with that at all. make us more strong and a better person.
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
I appreciate that my friend...I would just be afraid if the feeling would not be mutual..I mean how could marry her again if she doesn't love you anymore? Anyway thanks for responding...
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• Philippines
7 Sep 09
It will be a different story if she doesn't love you anymore. But I will use all my power to win her back again. I think that's what Love is. I am still not sure what's the fuzz about marriage? Life is too short, we should enjoy it while we can and it is better to enjoy it with someone you love.
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@zhouxi (1756)
• China
11 Sep 09
honestly to say,i would n't .hehe!
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Whoa! You're the first honest man that replied this topic...well whatever the reason for that statement of yours, you have the right to keep it yourself...I respect that..thanks mr honest man...i appreciate that...
@zhouxi (1756)
• China
11 Sep 09
yes,although i post less now.in fact i'm your old mylot friend before.
@se7enthbird (8328)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
yes i will still marry the same person. i am married with my wife for 7 years already, before getting married we live together for three years. if i am not willing to have the same person i will no longer ask her to marry me. i found someone who is perfectly fit for me. i am happy and very thankful for that. the question is if she wants an extension har har har
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Yes my friend...i guess the feeling must be mutual because how can it be when the other side is not in love anymore? Would you still go for it? Thanks for responding..
• Philippines
8 Sep 09
then i will do everything for her to be with me. i will be the best of what i can. though i am very confident that i will not be turned down har har har. we have a good relationship. so far so good and i can say that i am a good husband and father as well
@Sir_bobby88 (8245)
• Singapore
6 Sep 09
Why not if i really love her , i will never let her go again yea.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
I think srganesh right my friend Sir_bobby, what about that? Would you still continue in spite of that? Well, thanks for responding anyway...
• Canada
11 Sep 09
If my husband and I had to do it all over again, we definitely would. As it is, we have already married twice (once in the USA, and once in Canada), and we want to get married in every other country we visit.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
Yeah..as what I knew from the way you love each other (with your hubby)I appreciate it...no words can say..I agree with that..thanks for responding again..
@aurerm (371)
• Switzerland
6 Sep 09
Well I am married for almost 20 years now. I could not imagine beeing with another women- So Yes
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Wow! I appreciate that....I hope your feeling is mutual...thanks for responding...
@jaiho2009 (39034)
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
Hello Martin, This is great amigo...i really wonder why this is the only contract that doesn't expires hahahahaaMarriage contract...i should look for the expiration date....wahahahaha. uhmn...nah..i would marry Nicolas Cage when my marriage contract expires....hahahahaha lolzzzzzz
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Yes I know you contract expired already he he he he just wait and pray the contract of Nicolas Cage with his partner would expire also, and that will be your chance....he he he hehe naughty girl....
• Philippines
6 Sep 09
So, this contract would just as any contract you have sign while working in the company. I think I might be afraid of that, because if the contract ends, chances are my partner will find a new one even if she and i have our kids. I am still, not open-minded to this..I am not the choosy type, once i found some one, that's it..however, some what this could contradict true principles of marriage. some people are married because of money, or Parents demands..I'd rather have divorce.
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Well that would be case to case basis..who knows your partner extend the contract for the sake of your child...thanks for responding..
@taztheone (1726)
• India
6 Sep 09
The idea seems to be interesting however if you find someone who you really love before marriage & feels that she is the one for you, then I think there is no need for a contractual marriage & I prefer live-in relations to such things
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
I understand that my friend, but, what about if the other side won't love you anymore? Would you still insist? I think you won't anymore...thanks again my friend..
@sugarfloss (2140)
• Malaysia
6 Sep 09
hello there!I would reaaaally wanna stay with the man I love!
@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Yes that's right but what if you found out that you were now already love with your man...would you still marry him again? he he he he thanks anyway for responding...
@srganesh (6349)
• India
6 Sep 09
To be honest,I won't like to continue with the same girl,if the contract system is in force.And I think she too won't stay like that.Anyhow,trying life with somebody new could be refreshing.Hey........wait!What about the kids we got in a relationship?I think most of us stay together for the kids.Otherwise,this contract or anything like that is not needed.
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@mobhomeir (7565)
• Philippines
7 Sep 09
Well said my friend...I like your statement...thanks for that...you gave me an idea..thanks again for responding...