Do you think that he will consider me his friend after this ... ?
September 6, 2009 5:10pm CST
A little story : i was at a girl, with one of my best friends . That girl was for him. he was going to be with her, but she liked me , and stayed next to me all the time, and so on . It was obious . In the evening, i was home with my buddy and he told me to send her a message to tell her that i like her, and so on. I did that, because he told me. She knowed immediatly that we were joking , and the next day , she told me to go and meet her if i really liked her . I was to her , and we talk a little bit, and i`ve told her that my friend should be with her, and so on , and from one to another , we kissed , and we decided not to tell my buddy untill we will know that our relation has a little history . I stayed with her just 2 weeks . It`s was a nice relation , but i was feeling like i cheated my buddy, and we broke up . He knowed about us, before we were broke up . I couldn`t see my buddy for some days . i said him to forgive me , and he said me somethin that really hurt me : he told me this : " we`ll not break our friendship for a girl ... " that really touched me really hard . what do you think ? Did you ever made that ? or something like that?
7 Sep 09
I just want to know,do you love this girl? there is no WRONG LOVE in the world ,everyone has a right to stay with his or her lover .If you love each other,just tell your buddy and to work hard for a happy life.He should forgive you . If your attitude to this girl is not serious,keep away from them,time can cure the wound of both you and your friend.
7 Sep 09
well, i don`t loved that girl . But when i was with her, all it was good, but it was not quite love . We broke up and my friend told me that he already forgot that, and he`s not mad on me, but i don``t think that`s really what he thinks . We remained all 3 good friends , but nothing more . This friend of mine, it`s almost like it was before , no big changes were found , only some little ones, but thouse are just because we live now in different cities and we see each other maybe once / month .
7 Sep 09
Yes, you`re right . We didn`t loved that girl so much , but you must know, that as from my side, if a girl is with a friend of mine, i will not be with her, to cheat my friend , not in a million years . And i will never sell my friend for a girl . Maybe i wasn`t in the situation to chose between my love and my best friend... i know that it will be hard, but i just hope i`ll not be in that situation. If i`ll be, it really depends if i really love her . If i do, probably i will try to make all the possible to keep bouth