Can a man love two women at the same time...?

United States
September 10, 2009 2:48am CST
I had an experience like this and I always felt he loved his first woman more than me but showed more passion and excitement with me. Of course I left the scene...but what do you think?
11 responses
@med889 (5958)
10 Sep 09
We are human beings after all whether we are male or female, we have this tendency to like better things and to appreciate them now even animals are like that, so better enjoy what you have in the present now, he is with you and it proves that he has made up his mind to stay with you so this is one of the greatest proof you need. As he has already loved someone before you so this is normal for anyone to think about the person and to sometimes try to compare in his own minds so this is completely normal francis, he is with you now and love the moments instead.
• United States
10 Sep 09
Thank you so much for your sweet words.....
@redhotpogo (3935)
• United States
10 Sep 09
You mean love or "love you and want to be with you"? You can love alot of people at the same time, but you're going to love one person more than anyone else.
• United States
10 Sep 09
Well, I think he loved her and wanted to be with her. That's how it turned out. I was just a toy and experiment. I was too old for him anyway....
@Melbee11 (233)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I think that would make the current girlfriend not even excist. The guy is just getting two girls for his enjoyment. So no I don't think it's possible for a guy to love two girls. It's not cool to share your boyfriend with another girl.
@zuhause8 (18)
• United States
26 Sep 09
I think it is completely possible for a man to love two women at the same time. In my case, the other woman and I were complete opposites. He knew she wasn't good for him but still had that need for her. What I offered him, she couldn't and what I couldn't offer him, she had. If he could have melded the two of us together to make one person she would have had his perfect woman. Sad but true!
@StarBright (2801)
• United States
20 Sep 09
Love is an emotion that probably will never be fully explained. I think it is possible to love more than one person at the same time with different degrees of intensity. You may not know the level of intensity until put to the test. As you said, with you, he showed you passion and excitement, but yet you still felt he had more love for the other woman. Women often joke that they need several men to get everything they need in a husband. Men sometimes need the same thing. It is no one's fault and there is no need for anyone to feel badly because they cannot be all things to someone. When we sing those love songs about loving thru all your faults, we are really saying that we have made compromises. If that attraction is too strong, we are not willing to compromise. The love bug strikes.
@EliteUser (3971)
• Australia
20 Sep 09
Hey, No I don't think that a man can have two women at the same time. If he does, then he definitely doesn't love one of the women. It is impossible to be totally in love with two women, at least that is true for me. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@anurag3786 (6275)
• India
18 Sep 09
No a man can't love two women at the same time..because if he do it....it's not love ..he cheated bot women..and playing with her imotion's.. From my side...love is a feeling..in which..two hearts are connected..but if feeling losse..then..love love is automatically disappointed..so never doing in love...that thing..
• India
17 Sep 09
no never why love....that is end of two river....where these are loose there orginality & looking make for each other
• India
15 Sep 09
hello thgis is dastagir it is not good to have two girls for love it is not a grate thing to have it but we need to gave all the things but most man do it for fun
• Iraq
11 Sep 09
Yes it is possible for a man to love two women at the same time and when your faced with that situation it can be sad and awkward at the same time. Me personally,I agree with your decision. I wouldn't allow myself to stick in a situation like that where a man is stuck in between two women. Who wants to be the other woman? Not only that, there is no guarantee that he would choose you in the end anyway. So you have to do what's best for you.
@qqyyzk469 (108)
• China
10 Sep 09
Yes,he can,but he will choose one who is more suitable or he loves most..But whatever,if you feel happy.