I had real fight with my siser

@seared (261)
China
September 10, 2009 9:51am CST
Do we really have the responsibility to take care of every family member if we are the elder daughter? sometimes I just feel so tired,I just want to live my life without those burdens.My sister and little brother always have all kinds of problems. every time they call me there are always all kinds of complaints.my sister always conplains her relationship with her boyfriend,and his conflits with my mother , my brother always has the trouble about his college lives and job-hunting. last week my sister called me and told me she had a real quarrel with my mother .she wanted me to comfort my mother.I just felt so unbearable and told her my real feeling ,she just became angry and said something really hurts. I am really tired , I have been married, I just wanted to have my own life...
1 response
• China
10 Sep 09
yeah.....that's typical chinese family.....it seems the oldest suffer most burden,it maybe thought ridiculous in western countries but it's reality here in China,i don't think we can change much....
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@seared (261)
• China
10 Sep 09
yes, sometimes I just feel we chinese really so tired ,it seems that we always live for others, when we are young we live for our parents,then for children