Did you ever thought of betraying your spouse or boyfriend / girlfriend?

India
September 10, 2009 1:26pm CST
When we talk about relationship, the first word comes to our mind is trust. Because, every relationship is built over the strength of trust or faith or belief, whatever one may say. But, yet we sometimes think about betraying our most beloved one. The causes may be different from person to person. Betrayal is unbearable for everyone. If we come to know about a betrayal, we generally don't want to pardon the person betraying. Still, the thoughts of betrayal comes to our mind at times. What made you to think about betraying your most beloved?
3 responses
• Indonesia
15 Sep 09
Betrayal is the nastiest thing you could do your loved one. I strongly against it and it never crossed my mind, fortunately. Love is build upon trust and when you lost your or his/her trust, you lost the "glue" that make you stick together. I know sometimes for some people it becomes unbearable especially when your relationship/marriage is getting dull. But for me, I have no reason to do it. I have everything I want in my marriage and I want to keep it that way. Even if the situation gets tough, betraying my husband wouldn't be in my solution list.
• India
29 Sep 09
How lucky I am to gather majority of the most trustworthy lovers over here. I think you have a sound build up of emotions which can be cotroled with command. Even the thoughts need your permission to travel by your mind. Thats good. But I wonder, why these online dating sites are getting so much of popularity these days? Why people engage themselves in extra marital affairs? Probably I won't have any answer for these because, betrayal is the nastiest thing one could do to their loved ones.
@lovedude (4456)
• India
12 Sep 09
Nops. Not at all.. whom you love you can't betray them :-) it's only depends upon person if he/she betray their partner I think they are not loving each other at all otherwise they would have definitely share true things with each other.
• India
29 Sep 09
If I take what you said to be true, than I have to put a statement in this forum itself that those who engage themselves in extra marital affairs, don't love their partner... What do you say on this? Anyway, I was talkign about the thought not the act of betrayal........
• United States
15 Sep 09
i would say that at the time i had betrayed my husband he had already betrayed me and we had fallin out of love.