Do you think getting a partner is really necessary for life..?
@mynameiscindere (582)
India
September 11, 2009 3:12pm CST
Do you think getting married is really necessary...?
Is it a compulsion to get married in life...?
Is there anyone can't survive without a partner...?
Give your detailed view.
To me personally I need a partner, only when we both understand eachother completely.
If not it's a waste of eachother's time and life.
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8 responses
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
11 Sep 09
i don't think it's necessary to have a partner, unless two people happen to fall in love, and decide that they want to be together. If two people want to be together, when it is necessary that those two people join together, but if they don't want to join together, and if people want to be alone, then it is not necessary to have a partner.
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
11 Sep 09
Hi danishcanadian,
Thankyou for your kind response,
I agree with your point that the two people in love should decide that.
But in India the culture is different.
Even if the Bride or Groom doesn't like eachother, parents'll arrange their marriage.
Not common but it still happens around us...!
@TheAdvocate (2392)
• Philippines
19 Sep 09
Hello mynameiscindere. I was just curious with your answer to danishcanadian. This is not a judgment of your culture, I just want to know for my peace of mind. Do you agree with that your parents can choose your life partner for you? Personally, I think it has its advantages and disadvantages. On one hand, I know my parents love me enough to ensure that I will not be alone for the rest of my life. On the other hand, I would like to be able to choose the person I will live with, after all it is a lifetime commitment. Where are you on this issue?
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
19 Sep 09
Hi TheAdvocate,
I didn't say that parents are always compel their children to get married without their wish,
But still it happens...!
I can't say no to that...!
This is a rare case but can be found when a girl loves a boy and parents doesn't like the boy...!
They'll force the girl to marry the man who the parents have selected by threatening that they'll die if she's not getting married with the man who they've selected...!
I insist that it happens rarely...!
But not in everyday life...!
@Rock_Me_In (400)
• India
27 Dec 09
Hi my friend.
Sure each human being in this world needs a partner to care for each other my friend. Many monents in life like love cant be explained as easily my friend. It needs a person to care for us to be with us forever to know the essense of life my friend.
Sure getting a partner who doesn't understand you is wasting your life my friend. But on the other hand you must too try to understand your partner's emotions my friend. Its never a mistake bowing under the person whom you've decided to be your partner my friend.
Life without a partner is equal to sitting inside a dark room and considering it to be the world, when the world is still awaiting to welcome you.
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
29 Dec 09
Wow,
What an wonderful response,
But sorry you are too late, I've given the best response to some one else.
Actually, we were separated when I started this discussion.
Ya, me too feel similar to you,
I feel the life incomplete without a partner
@Rock_Me_In (400)
• India
30 Dec 09
Its ok my friend. I felt that topic to be more valuable to discuss upon. Thats the reason I commented it my friend not for the best response. But I'm really happy for your word my friend.
@bubblepink (694)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
In my honest opinion, I necessary need a lifetime partner. I don't think it's just because I am so done with my previous relationships, but I realized something that is worthy even without a partner. I don't like how they use the word forever because there is no constant and permanent people you can be with until that time. I am enjoying life with people around me. There are times that I think about having a partner, but it's not as far as getting married. I would like to have my own child of course, but I already accepted the fact that I am not sure of getting a lifetime partner.
@bubblepink (694)
• Philippines
11 Sep 09
It's not necessary to get a lifetime partner.* typo error sorry 
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
11 Sep 09
Thank you for Honest opinion bubblepink...!
I respect your opinion on lifetime partner...!
Here in India we use to have only one partner for the life time...!
There are some rare cases which will be having more partners.
Again thankyou for your response,
Happy mylotting.
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@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I dont think that it is necessary to have a partner to make life good or complete. however, if you do find someone that makes you want to be a better person, then go for it. I dont think marriage is necessary, however, i think that it does make since if you are going to spend you life with the person, after all, that is how God made us
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi Niecie21,
Ya correct God has made everything in pairs.
Everything is in pairs naturally.
But I think if you had a partner, life will be more contented and blessed.
But it all depend on the partner, whether it is goin to be pleasant or cursed right....?
@homeshoppers (6166)
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
its not really to get married, but to choose the best guy to be with. its easy to get married but the problem is if they are capable enough to handle it. some, they just used it to tell the world that they are married and also for the fact that it will make their family or parents feel at ease. so for me, i guess i need to be stable with my feelings with my partner first, have stable job and earnings, and we think that we are tested by time already and that no matter what, we aill going to stay closed and never give up then i guess thats the only time will get married.
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
25 Sep 09
Hi Homeshoppers,
Everyone wants to be like you and your thoughts,
Thank you for your response....
@earndeep (168)
• India
13 Sep 09
Getting married is not a compulsion... but its a duty to do so... Only d married one is called as life partner no one else... Every human needs a mutual help till life end.... so i suggest its necessary to have a life partner.
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
15 Sep 09
Hi earndeep,
Me too think Getting married is not a compulsion, also its not a duty...!
If you think it as a duty then you will start to hate your life...!
In India we call married people as couples or life partners...!
But here too western culture is spreading as a wild fire...!
People can't be able to shift themselves to western culture, because it's not ours...!
Also They don't stand by our culture, because they like the western culture...!
But at the old age it will be of great help helping mutually when they help themselves...!
I here say that marriage should be done with their will and wish...!
If not it'll become a job or work instead of Life...!
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
13 Sep 09
I don't think it's necessary to have a partner in life. Survival does not hinge on it but it does make things more pleasant and less lonely.
@mynameiscindere (582)
• India
13 Sep 09
Hi crimsonladybug,
yes you are absolutely correct.
I catch your mind.
It'll be pleasant when you and your partner understands eachother....!
Correct me if I'm wrong...!
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
yes, we need a partner to complete us, to watch over with one another, to share love,to share our life,dreams and thoughts, to do things together in this world, we need our half to be complete. yes,others do not have partner yet survived but incomplete. I personally need my half.
