What is the keyword to make the relationship strong.......
September 14, 2009 1:32am CST
I always wonder that what can you do to make any kind of relationship strong... CAN ANYONE HELP ME WITH IT???
16 Sep 09
hi mansaklok, For any kind of relationship, be it between loves, husband wife, brother sister, parents son or daughter, it is very important to know what other person want from you . No relationship is perfect and there is always give and take. Everyone has to work very hard to sustain a relationship which is healthy and good. The basic of any relationships are 1) Commitment: unless you are commited to the demands of a relationship, it wont work. 2) Trust: you should always trust your loved ones unless there is strong evidence to not trust. If suppose a girl feels that her lover just dont trust her and is always thinking what she is doing with other guys behind his back then sooner than later she would prove him right. Simply because she is fed up of always being doubted. 3) Love: unless you love and love is reflected the relationship wont be healthy 4)Respect: if someone is always degraded in relationship for any reason may be looks, dressing sense , job, education or anything ..it would not last long and if it does it wont be healthy. 5) The partner should not feel that he or she has to always prove himself or herself to the other partner to be accepted as equal. 6)Responsiblity: Society has fixed responsiblities for everyone in this world ..thought these are getting blurred but still.. if a man is not earning for quite a long time then soon he looses his respect in eyes of wife and children .. so everyone has to share his or her responsiblities to family and society to have a happy and healthy relationship. These are few points which came in my mind right now. I am sure there are others too but to me these are quite important. ofcourse faithfulness too but that comes under other point so i didnt elobrate it.
14 Sep 09
As cliche as it sounds, communication is the main ket to a good relationship. I am speaking from experience. Inability to tell your partner what's wrong is the start of the deterioration of your relationship. When you cannot talk to your partner, you tend to get your affections somewhere else and vice versa.