Can friends be lovers?

United States
September 17, 2009 4:23am CST
Can friends be lovers? Anything is possible in the world, but I would highly suggest that you get this out of ur mind. A friend is a person you depend on. A person you ask adice, and one that is always there for you, and that you trust. Pls. Can friends be lover?
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• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Based on my experience,i can really say yes.. But we never become lovers, we turned out to be bestfriends.. Hehe we are afraid to lose our friendship if our relationship fails.. And we made a good decision, now i have my boyfriend, and although he doesn't in a relationship now, we are both happy.. Like the saying does, friends can be lovers, but lovers can't be friends..
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• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Based on my experience,i can really say yes.. But we never become lovers, we turned out to be bestfriends.. Hehe we are afraid to lose our friendship if our relationship fails.. And we made a good decision, now i have my boyfriend, and although he doesn't in a relationship now, we are both happy.. Like the saying does, friends can be lovers, but lovers can't be friends..
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@tintukm (1084)
• India
20 Sep 09
Oh God,its the thing well many would think when they start to know what this/her friend meant to him,In case of a boy who has a girl as his friend would sometimes get the impression that his long term girlfriend can be his life partner as she knows him very well and would surly make a good life together.A this point 'the girl may say how can you ever think of me like this and the relation breaks or, even on the other hand joins together leading to life partnership. Girls would also be in situation like this.Considering her boyfriend as just a normal close friend when one day the boyfriend meets a girl other than her and he finds her best for his life,then is the time when the she realizes how much she loved him as such.This is what has the Bollywood movies have shown all these years. I guess the true friendship last long until the knot to be tied,thus leading to a lovely life for both.Many would even sacrifice their friends as love to others who are in need for a friend that they have.
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
17 Sep 09
Absolutely, This is just what happened to me and my husband we' have been friends for a very long time and i never really thought we could be a couple, And I absolutely don't regret anything because we are very best friends! Now, this might not always be the story for everyone, I got friends who became couple and then they broke after few months or years and it was really hard for them, I guess i;m a bit lucky!
@1anurag1 (3580)
• India
17 Sep 09
I think two good friends only can be lover. you dont directly start loving someone. first you have understanding in between you. and if you feel that he is very friendly to you and you feel comfortable with him then feelings come in your mind. In my view the ladder of love you can cross only through the friendship. You will always see that two lovers are allways good friends too.You cant imaging even two people who dont behave like friends. So i think to love some one you have to make him your friend first.
17 Sep 09
FRIENDS CAN BE LOVERS,, depends upon there feelings on each other benefit of this is they all really know its other, depend of long friendship they share with happy relationship may occur of the friendship that they have,,
@prinzcy (5058)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 09
Yes, friends can be lovers but never reverse back to being friends after that. Maybe they're some who can but mostly severe tie and can be the same again after the relationship end. So if you really want to take the chance, it's alright to do that but you need to aware of the consequences.