men cannot really be trusted

September 25, 2009 6:54am CST
me and my boyfriend is almost a year now and just recently he told me that he still have feelings for his ex girlfriend. i was hurt but what he told me. he said he is trying to totally forget her. because of the confession he made i don't feel like trusting him again. did i make the right decision?
3 responses
@magic9 (981)
• China
25 Sep 09
yeah, there are sometimes this kind man who tends to recall his past whchh is unrealistic. whether he still has a feeling to his ex doesn't matter, what matters is whether she still has feeling for him. If not, he's only troubling himself as a fool. so, if you hopes to be the one he misses, dump him, so he might miss you more. half kidding ! there is one possibility that he is just telling you his thoughts, nothing more. maybe this is a sign to prove he is honest to you. I i said maybe.
@Archie0 (4676)
25 Sep 09
I can only tell you from experience that I would not trust him because you never know what drama he could bring to you and your relationship. I dealt with this man who I knew for a really long time and he wasn't honest with me from the get up and I had to cut him loose. He was making look really and feel really dumb because I didn't know what he was doing when I wasn't around and I let him go even though it was really hard. You can trust some men but there are those ones that cannot be trusted and it sounds like he is confused about what he wants. That means he is not really sure that he wants to get married even though he says that the other girl is just time to pass. Do not believe that if you do then what happens when he is with her while with you its even harder to deal with. Do not tell your mom. If you have a best friend ask her or him what they think it doesn't mean you have to take their advice.
• Philippines
25 Sep 09
hey! women are like that too ya know. you are hurt now, so dont make an emotional decision. at least dont act on your decision- yet. clear you head or heart or whatever first, then decide.
@Sara101 (39)
• China
25 Sep 09
totally agree with your feeling.what he said is excuse.don't be silly my friend. if he told you he hadn't forget his ex, maybe he never cut off with her.