how can women be so brave to lie about this
September 30, 2009 8:18pm CST
I'm sitting here watching a new show called glee. And on this show there is this woman who is letting her husband go on and believe that she is pregnant when she really wasn't. She had found out from the doctor that she wanted to be pregnant so bad that she had gotten all the symptoms for pregnancy. He had told her she was pregnant only with a chicken wing. That is something that I could never lie to my husband about and i'd tell him right away. I wouldn't know what to do throughout the months when I'm supposed to get bigger and what todo when I'm supposed to come up with a baby. I'm the worst lier so that would not work out for me and id just break down and cry and say I'm not really pregnant. I would feel so bad because my husband would be all excited about being a dad and be buying all kinds of stuff for the baby and then in the end there was no baby. I know he would be very upset as any guy would about this issue.
1 Oct 09
..some moms are very desperate about losing their husbands if they won't give them a child.. however, if their is love between them, then they could always stay together.. maybe the wife had already judged her husband and she is afraid that she might lose him.. the thing is, there are so many people already who stayed together despite of not having a baby.. So this matter should not be taken as a joke or some kind of foolishness.. It will really be hard at the end for the husband to accept the truth and may even leave his wife because of her lies.. Anyhow, this is just a movie and more often than not, it doesn't apply to majority..
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10 Oct 09
The lady must be really sad that she hasn't been able to get pregnant. She must be really strange to pretend she is pregnant to her husband. It must challenging to show early pregnancy symptoms and even harder to get a bump. She will probably have to pretend she has had a miscarriage. Then her poor husband might grieve for a baby that didn't ever exist. This might split the couple up I imagine.
1 Oct 09
I agree with you. It isnt fair. One should do these things, whatever the situation is. Its not a small lie, its something of great importance. I think if I were him I would never forgive her. I could never do that although some people might be so desperate. However they shouldnt arrive to this point.
1 Oct 09
She probably love him so much that she's willing to do almost anything. We can't really blame her though I must say it's wrong to do that. For married couple, they would definitely be really happy to have a child of their own. It's terrible if it just nothing but a lie. For me, I'll be really glad if I am not pregnant right now. I am not married yet and pregnancy before marriage is definitely a no. I'll be kill if I do.