Do you ever feel like you are loving the wrong guy?

United States
October 4, 2009 12:17pm CST
I know what you are thinking. I can change him, He is good sometimes, or the ever popular I hate being alone. Ladies, I know that everything and everybody has there ups and downs but when is enough really enough. As women, we do love too much. sometimes it s out of fear. Fear of being alone, being abusive or even fear of losing financial security. If there is one thing I can bring to this discussion is for women to realize how strong they are. Of all the things we were made to do, we occassionally want someone else to take care of us. We all deserve that but not at the cost of ourselves. Ladies scream out loud and say you are worth something.
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@khithi17 (762)
• Philippines
13 Mar 13
Oh my God, I love this discussion. I can relate in a way. hahahah. about the question on the title of this discussion. yes I do. Sometimes. I ask myself whether am I loving the wrong guy? Am I wasting my time with him? I ask myself this question mostly when I feel hurt and I don't feel important to him. But when the time comes that he is sweet talking me and being too sweet with me. I feel weak and I just choose to forget all the pain he caused. I a stupid lover. hahahah
• Philippines
18 Jan 13
I agree. We are what we thought we were. If we think we are weak, then we are. Sometimes, we need to take a stand and not settle for anything less than what we deserve. We need to value and love ourselves before others can do it for us. When we look at the mirror, we have to look at the person who deserves to be happy and not to be taken for granted.
@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
5 Oct 09
"Losing financial security" Oh dear oh dear have we not moved on from statements like that It is statements like that that undermine women.
• United States
5 Oct 09
Really nice discussion I like everything that you wrote and you are right in everything. I am also one of those people that love and care I think that more than my partner. I have had many fear in my life and but I am not happy to say that I was in two relationships before that did not workout and even with my fears and the love I had for them I told my self that it was enough. Now I am trying my best to understand my husband because I don’t want this relationship to end but there are times that I really want to run from everything since I am tired of many things that are going on. But it is like my mom tells me “I know how you are and I am sad that you are going true this though times with him but you will know what do and you will also know when it will be enough” and she is right.