do you believe in destiny, especially in your love one?

@Craicha (801)
October 7, 2009 9:25pm CST
i do believe it...i married at early age that i thought i truly love with the guy i married and for long years i tried to save our marriage but it won't work out, as if i just fooling myself/ pretending relationship that wont work and its not true love can be teach.....til u cant find peace in your heart and mind...until i decided to ask freedom from him and he did give me...that very moment i feel free and happy that if only i do it sooner that i will nah sacrafice for false marriage for long time.....and now i meet the guy that i can say the right guy for me, its really different feeling if your in the right guy the one so called true love, i dnt even search for him, he just came at the right time and the right place...and now im happily with him...
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@manong05 (5029)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
I like to believe in destiny that there are two people destined to be together and once they meet, they will live happily ever after, but I just couldn't. It's all up to us to write down our own destiny. I was married at a very young age of 17 and I am still with my wife. We've been through rough times and we survived. I like to think that it is destiny, but it is more of our mutual determination to hold on and do our best to make our marriage work. have fun.
@mssnow (9493)
• United States
8 Oct 09
darn it I thought you were my destiny. lol Another mmarried man down the tubes for me lol. Oh well i still love ya. Hey Good to see you back :) where ya been?? Hugs
• India
9 Oct 09
before i had aim and destiny to get marry after love with my gf. i was really innocent. but in my life i face many bad thing from girls. i felt love in my life few time with few girls. but all they cheat with me. i'm always failed to read the mind of girls. i thought girls mind are very difficult and not stable. true love is not valuable to girls. maximum girls are cheat with guys. so now i love lot. actually its not call love, its acting may be.and now my only one destination. its to go bed once at anyway. i type all this to response your discussion. but tell trust that i'm not like that. i'm still very innocent.
@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
8 Oct 09
I do not believe in destiny or fate, call it what you will. One makes their own destiny and shapes the life they have and others also influence your life, if may be for the better or for the worst but there is no escaping peoples action. So I guess it is actions that shape our lives in one way or another.
• United States
8 Oct 09
I do believe it. I was divorced 10 years ago. Five years later, with a bit of coaxing, I attended my 20 high school class reunion, but came close to bailing out at the last minute. I met an old classmate, we fell in love and are now very happily married. She almost did not attend the reunion either. It turns out that we were in homeroom together for 10 minutes everyday all four years of high school and never really knew it. I think this was definitely destiny.
@mssnow (9493)
• United States
8 Oct 09
I have always believed in destiny and fate. the only problem is the men I meet who are my destiny belong to someone else lol. That just isnt right now is it?? Is there a single guy out there who is my destiny? let me know :)
• United States
8 Oct 09
I used to believe in fate... My husband and I are both Christians, and when we first met, I just knew that God wanted me to be with him... and the after the wedding, I was really depressed and for a while I did not even feel like I loved him at all because we were fighting a lot and not getting along very well... so I thought that maybe I had just wasn't listening to God enough... and then I realized that our marriage would only work if we wanted it to... if I had waited another year or so for someone other than him, I could be just as happy with that guy... but I choose to love the man I am with now... love is NOT just a feeling, but a choice... and just because you're going through a difficult time together and you don't LIKE each other, that does not mean you cannot work it out, because when you do work it out then you have an even stronger bond together! We are so much happier together now than ever before and so in love! And that is my success story! lol So although I don't believe in fate, I do believe you can make your own fairytale come true!
@hexeduser22 (5853)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
I believe in destiny but it really depends on you if you choose to follow it or deviate from it
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
no.. i don't believe in such thing! because if we weren't meant to be then there's nothing to do with destiny.. if the guy really loves you, then he'll pursue on courting you... there's no such thing.. but if one wants to believe, there's no harm in believing anyway.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
8 Oct 09
Hi, i am one who all my life i believe in destiny, fate and God wish. But now i have my doubts, and i ask myself; How can somebody if is his destiny or not? People are strange, and say that if they find somebody who love them really and marry with him that ..."is my destiny"...if something don t work, and they are not toghether, they say that "don t was my destiny"...so, who can say if is or is not destiny? Is a hard question...and maybe if something must happened, will be true, if not....don t was destiny...??
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
8 Oct 09
congratulations! im happy you found the right one. i believe in fate too. i found him and even if we go through tough times i know its all worth it. If you have found your love, its not hard to endure anymore knowing that person is there for you whether physically or emotional. We are far apart right now but in our hearts are with each other no matter what.
@advokatku (4037)
• Indonesia
8 Oct 09
huuu ... eventually you find the right partner huh?
@shajerrl (311)
• China
8 Oct 09
Maybe you have been told that you are my destined lover and I have fell in love you at first sight...maybe have but I don't trust this feeling at all, , I always believe the good relationship must base on the good understanding each other, if you want to know sb better, you must spend times with him/her, no shortcut to go...but actually, in our daily life, it really exist some destined lover, i don't know why, maybe that's God's will..lol...