Problem with Girlfriend !!!

India
October 8, 2009 8:34am CST
I belive that every person has felt some problem with his or her partner having few extra friends.... Like I have one of the best girlfriend one can have... but the problem is that that being a very good lady, she has quiet a lot of friends. Problem starts when i make a plan for an outing and it coincides with a date her friends plans, if she comes with me her friends taunt her that she doesnt care for them anymore, moreover they have a very bad notion about me as well which they doesnt feel bad to disclose that to her also, which she dislike the most. Have anyone faced this kind of problem, if you have please suggest me a solution to this problem as well...... thanks in advance.
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3 responses
@bettydeng5 (1709)
• China
8 Oct 09
How about invite their friends to have dinner together? then you can tell her friends that the outing is most meaningful for her, and tell them understand your thought and plan. Can you try it? Maybe her friends will understand you, so they won't have any taunt.
@getbrowser (1715)
• China
8 Oct 09
I have never such a situation. But from where I stand, what you should do is to learn to chat with your girlfriend and to try to understand her idea well. For example, you can try to make friends with your girlfriend's friends and then you may make a plan same to your girlfriend. From where I stand, you'd better learn to communicate with others and you will find that you can be friendly with everyone.
@hsofyan (3448)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
8 Oct 09
I thought, let it go naturally. That is fact, not prohibited or regulated. If you do not get along, leave her.