How do you approach someone?
By Huan762
@Huan762 (36)
Canada
October 15, 2009 10:23pm CST
Hi,
There's a girl in my arts class who's really attrracting me. She always looks so calm(I like calm people), and she always sits alone. I've been thinkin about sitting with her and talking to her, but I have big problems when it comes to socializing. I have no idea what I could say to approach her, how not to be too boring, etc... I also really want to avoid looking like flirting. Any tips?
(Note that I want her as a friend, I'm not trying to seduce her or anything...)
2 responses
@thebest1988 (603)
• China
16 Oct 09
hi,Huan762,once I have also experienced this problem,so I know your feelings ,hehe ,do not worry,as you say ,you do not have any attempt,just to be a friend,why do not you do a bit more courageous,boys should take the initiative.and please keep a sincere heart to treat her,over time she will be able to understand what you are. good luck.
@Huan762 (36)
• Canada
16 Oct 09
Haha, I know guys are supposed to be courageous, take the initiative and all, but... I don't fit the mold at all... Well, I'll have to try anyway, or I won't get anything. I'm just not really comfortable with approaching people I don't know... Well, to say the truth, absolutely NOT comfortable. Yay, I fail. And thanks for your answer~
@TreeMarie84 (104)
• United States
16 Oct 09
The best advice I can give you is to just be yourself. Chat about something she likes, or something that you two might have in common. For me, as a girl I like a guy that just acts himself. Hope this helps!
