can you tell love from attraction?
By angeliam
@angeliam (206)
China
October 18, 2009 2:31am CST
i am in love with a man twenty years older than me.we both feel good.but some friends warn me it's only attractions,it will never work.i just wondered why?we have passions for each other.we fit.i need a mature man who is considerate and who treats me like a baby, and he needs a young girl to give him vitality.i think it's love.how do you think?
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3 responses
@Gongfuboy (130)
• China
18 Oct 09
It's up to your preference and choice. Different people look at the conception of happiness in different ways, so it's your right to choose a man to be your soul mate whether he is old or young. The orthodox views of this problem is always a stereotype, but I don't believe it, I really consider a true love will incur on everybody. So you should celebrate that you are now in 21 century, or you may be savagely aparted. In China, there are also a growth in the number of such couple, just today, the most famous female pingpong player in China married with a business man who is about twenty years old than her. So I wish everything would get on well with your family.
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@angeliam (206)
• China
18 Oct 09
i think that way too.i know people,especially my relatives will glare at me.but they cannot feel what i can feel.i want to have a try even if it will end up with a failure,i won't regret.i enjoy everyday that i was with him.that's enough to keep me to stay.
@lixiaoyan (179)
• China
18 Oct 09
I also need a man who can treat me as a baby,but my boy friend is just like my baby ,haha.OK,as my opinion,if there is true love ,age is not a problem.If you are love each other truly,then please ignore the opinions of other people ,and try your best to prove that your love will go forever,to prove that they are wrong.
Best wishes for you and your Mr right.
