what if everything that's happening now is just a dream?

INteresting.. hehe ^_^ I will still be going ahead with my 'dreams', because it should be the best for me.. If i really wanna change anything, it will not just affect me, but many others around me as well.. PLus, if i were to opt for a better life, i might even lose alot more things in return, without me realising it, till very much later.. hehe What's meant to be ours, will always be ours.. If one were to be over ambitious, and managed to have a much better future, they will be back to square one, before they know what goes wrong.. haha =D

If my life is all just a dream then I would say it has been a very good dream. I would like to live my life as how I dream it would be with just some modifications or maybe nothing at all.

I cannot tell you how many times I have paused in my daily life and thought...am I really doing this? Is this really me? Am I really here now? This doesnt seem real. At least I am not the only one who has felt this....

Hi Ckyera.. I believe, Everything that goes in our life is already written, that to with time...So no matter what steps you take, those are to be happen (good or bad).. People who are facing problems now will say 'they would like to change their decision'...and those who are facing good will say 'they would take the same decision' If we had that power to change then no one in this earth be suffereing... Take Care

Hello cyk, I am really a dreamy person.Almost every night when sleeping i always have a dream,sometimes good and sometimes bad.There are times that i wake up laughing or sometimes crying. There are many times that my dreams were happened,and i really don't like that situation it makes me scared whether good or bad.But if everything happens now is just a dream? I will go for what i decided before.I am happy with my family now.Good day!

Hi ckyera, There's a very old and beautiful zen story on this subject. A famous zen master, Chuang Tzu once dreamt that he was a magnificent butterfly fluttering here and there. In the dream he had no individuality as a person. He was just a butterfly and he felt like one. But suddenly he awoke and he found himslef lying there, a human being once again. And then he wondered..."Was I before a man who dreamt about being a butterfly, or am I now a butterfly who dreams of being a man?" If you think deep about the riddle, our mind will have a very hard time. Actually the mind cannot solve it. The safest answer is 'maybe'. We will only understand the Universe when we' ll realize we have other instruments inside us designed for perception and analyzing, beside the mind. And start using them, believing in them.

Hi ck! Life itself is not less than a dream. Whatever has passed in our life appears like a dream. Only memories of our past remains in our mind, which we keep recalling every now and then. If life is a like a dream and I meet different characters in my dream(s), I would like to spend my life with them.

Hello again iloemi, you have a tough and hard topics to respond. Well if spiritual life included, YES. That would be always my first thing to do if everything in our lives would just a dream. The rest would be debatable

Why do you have any regret with your life now??? just kidding.. well, I could say that if it is a dream I just wish it is a good things and not the time which are full of nightmare experience...lol I would like to change the course of time not with the fact that I am discontented but I like to make my life better by correcting my mistakes or if their is any then make changes to it like having to edit before deleting those ugly things. However, since it is only a dream, come back to reality now..as dreams is only good for sleeping as one grows mature need to face every day challenges and even though we would like to go back or at least rewind is no longer possible to turn back time... So all you need to now is to dream about the future and not about the past or in waht you describe the current situation.. Thus, when you are presently happy with the frame of your mind..thus their is no need to treat your current life as a dream as it is the reality and having the one you loved on your side..is a good things to treasure of no matter what comes...

I think if it beautiful dream,just enjoy it.LOL.I was feel like that when I have big problem that I never imagine before that it can be happen in my life.I hope it just a dream.Like when My Dad was passed away.But,for what I feel now,I just be grateful and I always keep positife thinking that what was happen in my life now so it's the better life that God made for me.

I think it IS all a dream...or a hologram... look at how we are all friends here on mylot even though we don't know each other but we come here to interact.

This issue blinked within me also many times, specially during my happy days. I used to fear, is it a dream i am running with. At the same time, during bad days i tried to think that it is a dream and suddenly i will be awake and will find that everything is ok arround me. Human brain wants the happy episodes and always tries to reject bad and sad episodes.