Should we seek or wait for love?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
October 23, 2009 7:38pm CST
Nowadays there are so many people busy looking and seeking for love, through different way like dating online, attending parties and special gatherings in hope to find someone who will love, accept and care. Some often jump from one relationship to another because it's difficult to be alone.
While others, simply hoping for someone to come into their life, as they believe that love will find them. It's a mystery that will happened any moment and time in your life.
11 responses
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
In my opinion is that we need to seek not to wait. Because if were not seeking anyone who can we wait?Seek first and wait the best way...We don't assure that someone will go into your home and say "hi!I'm your destiny"...have a nice day!
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
You're right! We have to seek and wait for the right one to come along. As the saying goes, "look and you shall find, knock and door will be open," though it's not really the same meaning but more likely related.
thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@velocity_186 (879)
• India
24 Oct 09
upto u sometimes u can just leave it to fate
u know crying over ur mistakes for picking up the wrong guy / gal , fetches u nothing
U will slowly n surely find ur love , it may be ur friend ur colleague or some stranger but life never comes with empty hands
u will surely have someone special waiting for u
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Yeah, there's always someone who's waiting for us, so why wait that person for a long time, you need to find that person.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
24 Oct 09
I dont think anyone should LOOK for love..I think they should wait for it to happen or they'll end up hooking up with someone and trying to force themselves or con themselves into believing they are in love a person which just wastes the time of both ppl....Love will come to a person when the time is right...
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
To wait is useless and to seek is to try.Which better between the two is to seek as waiting lead to nothing and boredom. While in seeking you are making a search for your ideal partner and maybe he just around the corner observing you but a future partner would not see his potential partner if you do not make an appearance or socialize. Such as in the case of other people are beautiful but they remain unmarried because they are not satisfy with the outcomes and some rarely get out of the house, unemployed or worst she is old enough. Then, becomes lonely as grow old alone with no companion and this other caregiver could care for them but not for a longer period of time.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Sometimes it's much better to seek and look for love than just keeping your self in a corner. Life should be explored and enjoy the same thing as love. You should introduce your self to others and make your self available so the possibility of finding love is great.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@moneymakingtoday (4061)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
i wait for the right time to come. i always believe that there is an appointed event or thing for each one. i don't look for the second opportunity to happen (children are my priority now) but if it comes and think it is the right one, why not. but looking for it to satisfy any want is not my cup of tea. i am happy as i am now and more happy to care and tend to my children who are doing good.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
25 Oct 09
Oh, it's good to know that you're happy with your life now and contended having your kids to take care of. Well we all have different needs and wants, as there are those people who are single and quite needing someone to spend and share with time and blessings in life. That's why they look for love.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@redphile (2264)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
i believe that love comes at the right moment, the right time. bt i also believe that theres nothing wrong in finding love, or look for it, or seek for it. we should be patient because the right one will definitely come along without us knowing it. =)
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
Yeah, there's nothing wrong looking for love as others considered it as desperate. We need to get to know other people, look for some prospective than just sitting in a corner waiting for someone to come. Though love don't come in an instant it's still and process, and yeah we should be patient, it's not good to hurry love.
Thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@my_name_is_coco (4334)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
I think it is better to wait for love.also,I believe that someone shouldn't be looking out for love.let it come to you.enjoy your life,and just let things fall through at the right time.
@patofgold23 (5069)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
i believe waiting is much better..
if you hurry... especially in love, you may not always get what you want...
but if you are patient... you can take your time to choose, to judge, and to weigh things well...
and you would know you are making the right choice...
@leincakep (62)
• Indonesia
24 Oct 09
Love can come so easily, and also could go at any time, without being able to stop. I prefer to look for, rather than waiting. I believe that, what happens in life, there are arranged, and of course, God will arrange everything. However, we will never know, about what will happen in the future. better to try, rather than waiting, and while trying, we leave everything to God.
