friendship or love?

October 23, 2009 10:49pm CST
hmm,.lately, iv'e been hearing things about friends falling for their bestfriends on the radios..and they were skeptical about telling their friend about it for they don't want to ruin their friendship?but they just can't help it, they are really in love with their bestfriends..i feel pitty for them. but as for me, i think it's a good thing to tell them too. what if they both have the same feelings and the others just can't tell his/her bestfriend just because they felt the same way too..isn't that more awful to know that they both feel the same thing but nobody tried to confess their feelings for each other just because of it and then realizing too that they're both tied up with another person they don't really love that much?hmm..think about it..
4 responses
• Philippines
24 Nov 09
i am into this kind of situation right now wherein i have to choose between friendship or love. And i decided to choose friendship over love. He was my bestfriend for 2 years we had our ups and down. I can lean on to him everytime i needed him. And i've noticed that something is going on that i just didnt mind. He was beginning to feel something for me. He confessed that he wanted me more than just a friend. And i honestly told him that it would be better to remain the friendship that we have. And now, we're doing good. We are the best of friends and im not closing my doors for that possible relationship to grow into something.
@buping (954)
• China
26 Oct 09
hi danemz, the girl/boy should tell his/her best friend the love feeling. i think maybe they really love each other. how does love come? be staying with each other for a long time and know each other more, so a kind feeling of love come out. so many couple that were best friends. it happend to me, i was my boyfriend's best friend, but now we are couple:)
@gowriv89 (295)
• India
24 Oct 09
Hi danemz.... have a nice day... thats true true... its better to confess one's feeling... rather than being mum... only crying child gets milk... right??? I felt like i had fallen in love with my best friend ever... i just told him that within a week... later he took his own time to realise his love for me... but i am sure that if i had not confessed first he would have remained mum... so i guess its mandatory to express one's mind to the closest one atleast...
@bing28 (3798)
• Philippines
24 Oct 09
It's alright confessing your true feelings to your best friend maybe if you're a man but for a woman you have to wait for your best friend to still do the move. Anyway good friendship is the best foundation of love.