Is it right for a young one to get involve in a relationship?

Philippines
October 27, 2009 1:48am CST
When I was a little one my grandmother kept on telling me that i should not enter to any kind of relationships because I have to finish my study first but as time goes by, I haven't understand my self. Yes, I'm too young for that but ooh my God I can't control my self from being in love!!!I'm 14 years old at that moment and I'm 16 years of age now. I've been in any kind of relationships but I don't know if I'm doing right or not.
1 response
27 Oct 09
At your age you will fall in love so easily, but 99% of the time that love won't last. But your studies will, they will last you a life time and are so important. Life is tough especially in todays climate and you need to study and do well in School/college/university to stand any chance getting a worthwhile job that you can enjoy and earn well in. Pursueing a relationship will distract you from your studies, a relationship at your age is unlikely to last that long so in the long term you would have wasted your studies for not very much. Once you have done your exams there will be plenty of people out there to start a relationship with. I think this is the main reason your Grandmother is telling you not to. And I would respect that, there is nothing stoppping you going out with your friends and having fun.
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
so is it right to stop loving even if i cant!!!!!!! its definitely hard.... i've been hurt for how many times but still i keep on going !!! my life is ruined because of this stupid love i know im too young but the question is how could i stop this and focus to my studies
27 Oct 09
Is the love returned? If so why not just have fun as friends for now. You get to spend time together while still concemtrating on your studies. Spend your time off with friends try to keep yourself busy and not dwell on it
• Philippines
27 Oct 09
do you think that would be better? maybe this is not a real love!!!! what do you think???