If your friends had cheated you ,will you forgive him/her?

@vincyk (198)
China
October 29, 2009 9:29am CST
I have a very very close friend who is in good relationship with since we are in childhood.Though we are in different colleges,we also keep in touch everyday.Every weekend she will killing time with me in my house,but one day my mom found that her necklace was stolen and coincidently at that weekend she hadn't coming and i gave her many calls but with no answer.So i guess it must be her and at last she admitted it.From then on we are not friend anymore but today she ask me to forgive her and want to be friend with me again,what should i do?Forgive her or not/
3 responses
raynejasper
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Well, maybe your friend has a very heavy reason in doing that.. Considering the times you spent together, I believe you already knew her well including her behavior and attitude.. Why not talk to her and ask her why? for me, I would always consider the reason behind the act.. and I believe everybody deserves to be given a second chance.. so why not forgive her? You know, sometimes in our lives, we come to a very difficult situation and we look for possible solutions whether these solutions are good or bad.. Maybe you can even help her as her friend to overcome whatever hardship she is encountering now.. I hope this could help you because for me, your friendship should not just end that way..
vincyk
@vincyk (198)
• China
30 Oct 09
Thank you very much for your advice.I dicide to give her a chance.^-^
EARLZHAN
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Yeah.. I think she had a reason in doing that. So I think if she really wants to be your friend let her explain. Raynejasper is right in doing that everything will be clear to you and maybe you can help her with her problems.
anning
@anning (88)
• China
3 Nov 09
the hardest thing is to forgive.
EARLZHAN
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
30 Oct 09
Well friend I think you should forgive your friend. Give her a second chance and let her explain why did she do that. After you forgive her you can be friends again maybe not as good as before but atleast you have already forgive her. You've done your part and it's her time to prove that she reall feel sorry for what she did.