Can love make you happy?

Cambodia
October 30, 2009 10:21am CST
Most people always feel happy when they have love. I am also a kind of that. Sometimes, I feel that I am the luckiest boy in the world that I can get the lover. But everything is not static at all. Love doesn't only make me fell happy but also make me feel hurt. How about you?
5 responses
@VVroom (258)
• Romania
30 Oct 09
Love is not suppose to make you happy. Love is supposed to give you bliss. And love is by definition, unconditionally. If happiness is followed by pain, that is a relationship, or lovelust or lovehate, call it whatever you want but not love. However, love can be there but it's covered by your egos. Watch out on your ego. Egos usually love to eat love and when they are doing it, you feel yourself hurt.
• Cambodia
30 Oct 09
Thanks for your idea.
@VVroom (258)
• Romania
30 Oct 09
peace, man!
• United States
30 Oct 09
it depends on how you feel about the person again i dont really thinkm relying on anyone is gonna make your life or anyone best.unless u get to know the person with a real good eye. sometimes people are fine with friend s and family and being alone but then theres people that want s to bew with someone .they need the attention to make there life feel confident and better.it all defers in so many levels but again to understand what love or friendship is .takes time to solve love is a puzzle it takes time to solve i can same the same about life.
• Cambodia
30 Oct 09
Yes! Love is puzzle, and it can make u headache.
• United States
30 Oct 09
i dont think love is what makes people happy its who the person is . most people dont even know what love is they just tend to get married and move on in life then regrets comes in and whatnot in order to love someone u have to get to know that person,for some time. then if both people are actually ok with one another than its a different storywhen times come to reality point you will know what love is and it will show blinded over the reaction to that person.take your time and knowing what the word love and friendship is .sometimes relationship were best as a friend more than a lover lol
• Cambodia
30 Oct 09
So you think that most people don't know what love is. But I think they will know they get married.
• United States
30 Oct 09
I don't think love makes you happy. I think love is a byproduct of being happy. In life we have many emotions and I think love is a big picture emotion. It is not really an in the moment feeling in my opinion. I think love is often confused with lust, which is much more in the moment. Love is an overall feeling with a partner or in a relationship. I feel fortunate to have such a stong bond with my husband and am lucky to have found him. Love does not make me feel hurt though, it is the actions of others that makes me feel hurt.
• Cambodia
30 Oct 09
Ok! great explanation.
• India
30 Oct 09
i wont say that love can make you happy. but love can make you to laugh and cry, you get a sence of respect when you are in love. a feeling that you mean a world to someone. this feeling i what makes us happy. every person in the world wants to be respected, all the rich poor males and females. its a fact
• Cambodia
30 Oct 09
oh! Yes it can make us laugh with cry.