What do you do when you discover your partner cheating with your bestfriend
October 31, 2009 5:42am CST
What do you do if you discover your bf/gf cheating on you and the persons he is cheating with is no other than your bestfriend. How would you react towards your bf? towards your bestfriend?
4 Nov 09
this would be really traumatic experience and very painful indeed. because of all people, why it would be your bestfriend to cheat you. Anyways, if this would happen to me, and if i really caught them in the act, i would still show up to them and let them know that i already knew what they are doing behind my back. i wont ask them for any explainations, and on that very same day our relationship will end...maybe later i can forgive them both but for sure its not very soon. I will move on with my life without them, i guess my family would be there to comfort me and of course, i will share my burden with the Lord so i can surpass all of these challenges and trials im facing.
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1 Nov 09
Good afternoon werdan88,when I discover my boyfriend cheating with my best friend .Oh, my god !!I will become crazy and sorrow !!I will break with them no matter what reasons they have !!They are my important persons in my life before ,and although they love each other ,I bless for them ,never to meet them !!
31 Oct 09
werdan! OMG! That's one thing my bf should not do to me! I'm not really a vocal type of person so i really don't know what to say if this happen to me. But most likely, I'll go on with my life and forget them both. They will have their karma anyway. :)
1 Nov 09
Wow...what a good situation. I think i would rather lost them both. Explanation is not needed anymore,knowing about it is good enough to call it off. I don't want to hear and know their reasons,simply becoz,it will only add more insult and hurtings. I believe that time heals all wounds...so,i will wait for the right time when pain is gone,then,i think,it would be better to face them if given chances..
31 Oct 09
mate, this a very awkward situation for anyone. Theoretically speaking, considering I will not be reign by my anger to the two, I will ask them peacefully whether the issue is true. Of course I want to know first whether I am barking at the right tree. If they admit the affair, its time for me to move on. There is no room for explanations or begging is possible. One thing is for sure, You are betrayed. And now is the time to look for people to take their places. Of course this is what I will do as long as I maintain my rationale as I heard the news!