What do you do when you discover your partner cheating with your bestfriend

@werdan88 (273)
Philippines
October 31, 2009 5:42am CST
What do you do if you discover your bf/gf cheating on you and the persons he is cheating with is no other than your bestfriend. How would you react towards your bf? towards your bestfriend?
10 responses
• Philippines
4 Nov 09
this would be really traumatic experience and very painful indeed. because of all people, why it would be your bestfriend to cheat you. Anyways, if this would happen to me, and if i really caught them in the act, i would still show up to them and let them know that i already knew what they are doing behind my back. i wont ask them for any explainations, and on that very same day our relationship will end...maybe later i can forgive them both but for sure its not very soon. I will move on with my life without them, i guess my family would be there to comfort me and of course, i will share my burden with the Lord so i can surpass all of these challenges and trials im facing.
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• China
31 Oct 09
suck!if you don't love him any more,just move on.if you still love him,you'll sufer more...but think of it ,if him turns back and beg your pardon,will you accept him and love him like before?
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
nope I wont. I believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. :)
• China
1 Nov 09
good for you,and especially the love cheater.
@Agoenxz (555)
• Indonesia
2 Nov 09
It must be bad, sad and dissapoint to deal with this kind of situations. But if i have to face it.. i will have just gonna say thanks.. to both of them, just so now i know, and so be it...
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
2 Nov 09
You ARe still gonna hank the. Wow! What a kind person you are. :)
• China
1 Nov 09
Good afternoon werdan88,when I discover my boyfriend cheating with my best friend .Oh, my god !!I will become crazy and sorrow !!I will break with them no matter what reasons they have !!They are my important persons in my life before ,and although they love each other ,I bless for them ,never to meet them !!
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
sorry i did not quite get what you said. sorry. :(
@anning (88)
• China
31 Oct 09
the first method i think is killing them but it does not deserve you to act like that .only a coward will do like that . let them go and do your own things .make yourself a big man.
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
wahaha! DOnt worry that didnt happen to me. :) how would you reac if you caught them? :)
@yan_blue8 (1439)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
werdan! OMG! That's one thing my bf should not do to me! I'm not really a vocal type of person so i really don't know what to say if this happen to me. But most likely, I'll go on with my life and forget them both. They will have their karma anyway. :)
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
But how would you react on the spot when you are placed in such a situation? :)
@Craicha (801)
31 Oct 09
kill them both ....lol... just kidding will actually i hate it if happen to me but im glad it did nah happen to me bcoz i really cant picture in what im going to do with my bf and bestfriend...xoxo
@werdan88 (273)
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
wahaha! right! me too!. It would really be a very TERRIBLE SITUATION to be get into. :) wahaha!
@jaiho2009 (39021)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
Wow...what a good situation. I think i would rather lost them both. Explanation is not needed anymore,knowing about it is good enough to call it off. I don't want to hear and know their reasons,simply becoz,it will only add more insult and hurtings. I believe that time heals all wounds...so,i will wait for the right time when pain is gone,then,i think,it would be better to face them if given chances..
@hireshd (492)
• India
1 Nov 09
Very simple I will discuss with her and find out what exactly is going on, many a times we just make a issue out of nothing so rather than to blow it up I will talk with her and find out what she feels for him.
• Philippines
31 Oct 09
mate, this a very awkward situation for anyone. Theoretically speaking, considering I will not be reign by my anger to the two, I will ask them peacefully whether the issue is true. Of course I want to know first whether I am barking at the right tree. If they admit the affair, its time for me to move on. There is no room for explanations or begging is possible. One thing is for sure, You are betrayed. And now is the time to look for people to take their places. Of course this is what I will do as long as I maintain my rationale as I heard the news!