fed up!!!!

United States
October 31, 2009 8:19pm CST
My husband and I are basically seperated, if you know me and seen some of my other discussions you would know many things I have had to deal with. Now on the weekends, I will take my son to his grandparents where his dad stays. I dropped him off Friday, his dad wasn't even there!!! Then Saturday, I go over and give him his outfit for halloween, his dad is acting anxious; needless to say I take our son to the store with me, we go eat, and then he wanted to go back---dad not there. I end up taking him trick or treating, he wants to stay the night at grandma's. We go back there and I wait about an hour and he isn't there. I go ahead and go home, I don't want to take him away from grandparents they have a right to him also. During the week his dad threw a fit because he didn't see much of him during the week. Our son usually gets off the bus there for when I am at school and then I pick him up afterwards. Though, when I bring him to stay for the weekend his dad can't even be there, can't do anything with him!!! I get so sick of it, yet his parents don't say anything to him!!!!! I think it is time for him to grow up and have responsibility but his sisters, parents, no one says anything to him and let him keep doing it this stuff....I feel so bad for my son.... Thanks for reading, just had to vent....:((
2 responses
@solared (1207)
• United States
1 Nov 09
That is horrible, he's not being much of a dad. Sounds like he either has some secret girl friend that keeps him busy. Or he has some kind of addiction that he must do constantly.
• United States
1 Mar 10
2nd one is the correct. it hurts but i keep trying to keep my son active by doing things with him and its getting to the point now, where he don't even want to go see him.
@jerimiyah (232)
• Philippines
1 Nov 09
im so sorry to hear that. is there is no way to patch it anymore? not even a little gleam of hope for restoration?