Making friends

United States
November 3, 2009 2:30pm CST
making friends and keeping them is a pain... it is such an effort sometimes to keep your friends. making time to visit and plan lunches or dinners. and it is even harder when your other half isnt friends with ur friends. does anyone else have this issue?
3 responses
@kiuhkj (117)
• China
4 Nov 09
The biggest problem caused by this reason is yourself. You always put your atrial locked up, and how to let others go in and allow yourself to come out then?
• India
7 Nov 09
the biggest problem what i feel is that we try to mingle our old friends and new friends together, they like me that doesn't mean they have to like my other friends which is a simple fact my brain does not understand every time. :-)
@allknowing (130064)
• India
4 Nov 09
If maintaining friendship is such an ordeal it is better that we have no friends at all. You have correctly assessed the situation. We all go through this but at the same time we need atleast one or two talk to. The saddest situation is when after struggling for years to pick a friend someone else walks away with your friend and this has happened to me several times. Best is to take things in ones stride and not break ones head over this.
@Boofybutt (316)
• United States
3 Nov 09
My significant other doesn't want me to have any friends, at all, so he makes it miserable for me when I want to talk to them or spend any time at all with them.