what if somebody screamed at you?

Philippines
November 5, 2009 8:21am CST
sometimes a person can just get mad and shout at you. for some unexplained reason, we will feel deeply hurt about it and try to avoid that perrson. i don't know if i can still be at my best behavior when somebody screamed at me. i am a very short tempered peron-which is the reason why i try to get away from people who are in a bad mood because i can easily get influenced by them. i hate to troubles but i can't promise not to fight back when somebody screamed bad words to me. especially when the words got below the belt. and it would really hurt. sometimes, we can say that words can wound deeper than what physical wounds can do. so i say, maybe we should try on refraining from huting someone else's feelings and most of all, don't scream bad words at someone.
2 responses
rg0205
@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
17 Nov 09
When I'm mad, I normally hold my mouth because I think when you're angry, you are more inclined to say the wrong things to hurt another person. When you say hurtful things, sometimes, apologies don't cut it. No matter how many apologies you make, the damage is done. When people scream at me when they're mad, sometimes I let it go because to me, I think because he/she is mad, he/she is not thinking straight. When the person calms down, I'd have a sit down with him/her just to talk about what happened and remind the person it does no good to take your anger out on others. I am patient but if a person does it one too many times, I would blow up.
rosepedal64
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
7 Nov 09
hi invisiblelady Im not sure if I could stand there and not say something if someone was to yell at me. I am a pretty easy going person and to have someone to start screaming at me and me knowing tha I haven't done that to them then I think they would need to shutup right away or I would shut them up...LOL..I just hope that doesn't happen to me cause I hear that jail isn't a pretty place to visit..LOL..Have a great weekend and keep smiling..