I don't know why the man scared to marry, and worry he will lost his freedom

China
November 5, 2009 9:29pm CST
I'm a girl, I can't understand why man don't want to marry, and scared to marry he will lost his freedom? Why not marry? If the man love the girl very much, I think it's necessary to marry, why scard? I don't understand what the problem was.
1 response
@marty3888 (2359)
• United States
6 Nov 09
Don't try to tell my girlfriend it's necessary. I'm the one that wants the wedding. She says she will stay with me forever. but doesn't want to get married. I just think she doesn't want to go through all the trouble it takes, all of the cost,etc. So sometimes, it's the woman that doesn't want to get married.
@agv0419 (3029)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Even the girl doesn't want marriage because it is very complicated and it has so many responsibilities. I think the guys hate marriage because they are not yet ready to give up their freedom or they afraid of responsibilities.