girls,what are you thinking about?

China
November 6, 2009 4:23am CST
before i said i love her,the expression she gave me was gentle,lovely,and i thought maybe she would never say a word loudly.and that character was just what i want.so last winter holiday,i told her that i have fell in love with her and she didn't refuse me.when i first kissed her i thought everything was so fine,i have got a good girl friend then after 3 or 4 years we would get married. but now i found it become more and more difficult for me to understand her.since we studyed in different college.so always it was not easy for us to meet,and recently we often had some small quarrels,some times we quarrel for some very petty things which were really petty,and some times i even didn't know for what and she just got angry. at first,i think maybe she wanted to break up with me but not easy to say it out so i did but she cried and asked me why,then i knew that was not the reason and i told her "it's just a kidding" then she angry again. she blamed me for not calling much,then i changed.then she told me don't meal with other girls,then i told her i won't....it seems no matter how i do she always could find the reasons to be unsatisfied.and she always didn't trust me. that's sad,right!!so,my friends can you share me your experiences and help me out!!
2 responses
@Ruby722 (798)
• China
7 Nov 09
Relationship is complicated.If you really tried to manage this relationship and her attitude is still the same.You really need ask her face to face what's going on with your relationship.Girls always suspicious and nervous trying to talk to her.Prove how much you love her i think it might change her attitude,If it still can work out i gotta to say sorry let it go
• China
7 Nov 09
um...i think communication is the key to solve the proplem,but i've just found it just like a big barrior among us and not easy to talk.
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
Hi! you're not the only one with that experience. I thought the same too with my boyfriend before. He was older than me in a few years and I still go to college. We were best of friends and we used to laugh and talk together. We were so sweet and I though he will be mine.He finally decided to go back to college from a different school. I already expected that he would choose a different school but he promised not to change and he will always be the same. He took a second course like mine (engineering) and I'm still about to finish my degree right now. It was the first day of school that I noticed that he seemed to get away from me. I thought I have done something wrong. I said sorry and I got no response. Days passed and nothing changed. I texted him, what's wrong? I got no response. I tried to smile at him, he responded One time only. After that? I got no response again. I asked if I can talk to him? He said he is busy. I asked him not just once or twice, I can't count it anymore. But I also got tired to it.
• China
6 Nov 09
that's sad,the breaking up will be more sorrow if we have had so much beautiful memory before,wish happiness always with you