I wanna get married?

@hireshd (490)
India
November 7, 2009 9:58pm CST
How many of you have this feeling of getting married and are not afraid of this word when it comes to really deciding and choosing a partner, many of us really get scarred if we are asked you are going to get married. Do you marriage brings a lot of changes i our lives or people consider that marriage comes with a lot many changes?
4 responses
@SACHIN2708 (1634)
• India
17 Nov 09
See every people wats ro get married because it is that type of delicious desert that who eat they also feel repent and who does not eat they also feel repent.I want to get married because now I am of age 24 but I am not financialy strong so I decided that not to get married until you will not get good source of income.It is another responsbilty and ofcource that marriage brigns new thing in your life because it is called a second life so why we should not live that second life???????
@hlgracey (68)
• Philippines
11 Nov 09
marrying a guy u like is big deal to us..really!we should know that this guy is really meant for us..I'm getting married this month and for sure I'll be the happiest bride ever.I'm only 23 years old. Before, i don't believe in magic or love at first sight but it happened to me..i thought i only see that in movies but wrong!it did happened to me..I'm a party goer something like that but wen my husband to be proposed on me i suddenly answered yes cause its like there's a magic u felt wen u say yes.I believe that were to young to get married but we are financially stabled and we have business together.Of course changes is always there especially for me.But u don't care as long as ur happy and u have ur parents consent then that's it.I know my mother in law will guide me to be a better wife to her son and same with my mom.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
8 Nov 09
I have to think back over 40 years ago to answer this one. Before I met my husband, I never had the desire to get married. In fact, I never even considered it. I remember when he asked me about marriage, I thought he must be crazy. I remember saying "Why would I want to do something like that? Do you want to get married?" Of course, he replied "No. I was just asking. Girls usually want to." After some time of dating, he started asking me what I thought about his taking care of some business matters that I thought should be his personal decision. I just did not get it. I kept saying "I don't know. Do what feels right to you." Finally, he just flat out asked me to marry him. It was only then that I considered it. After we were married, I realized that I had only known this man for 6 months. It had nothing to do with fear of commitment. It just never crossed my mind. When we decided to do it, I was extremely happy and excited and very much in love. We had spent a lot of time together, altho we never lived together. I guess what I am saying is to me, the thought of marriage should come after you find the right person. You go looking for a date. You may not want to date someone who is not marriage material, but only after that date works out do you consider marriage. Marriage does bring change. Where you once only considered yourself, you now include a marriage partner in every little aspect of your life. I have heard the expression "When I eat, my whole family eats." Well, after marriage, that is no longer true. There is another place setting at the table. If the marriage is right, it is well worth all the work.
• Australia
8 Nov 09
I am still very young, and I don't think I am ready to get married any time soon. I mean I'm single to mingle now. I don't think if someone asked me to marry them to be scary, but if I haven't been with them for long or if they just all of a sudden ask that question with me only knowing them for five minutes.. Well yeah that's the part when it can become scary. I don't think us woman actually think of it as scary, but when we are asked that question we kind of get in a bit of a shock, like you normally would. Marriage does bring alot of changes in your life, soon you will probably like to start a family. So you should be comfortable with your partner and make sure she or he is the one before you decide to marry eachother.