have you ever felt attracted to the person of same gender?

India
November 8, 2009 5:57am CST
it happens sometimes when a person comes so close in discussing and sharing feelings that you even stop thinking what his or her gender is has it ever happened to you
6 responses
@offlimits (601)
• Philippines
8 Nov 09
Yes, and it's just normal. I have a number of female friends who I really admire that sometimes I wish that I'm a guy. Haha. I think it is because I find it much easy to relate to a person with the same gender so I sometimes get attracted to a girl.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
8 Nov 09
haha. nice! well,its normal when you're not 18 yet. Every individual will experience identity crisis but when you passed this stage and you're still confuse with presence you'll be in trouble. In my case I've been to different relationship with men but i prefer to settle with ladies, ladies who act,dress like real lady like me. I'm free and prod.
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
Adolescence indeed is a tough phase. You're right about the identity crisis. It really affects us and we really can't avoid it. And by the way, I'm 17 now so yeah, it's still normal for me. Good thing I'm not yet in trouble huh. Haha. Well, good thing for you there. Take care! :)
@eurekafemme (5881)
• Philippines
9 Nov 09
That is possible. You are seemed drawn to a person because there is something in him/her that you feel connected to.One way or another, you can relate to what she/he feels or sometimes you desire to be like him/her.For me, if you generate attraction from an opposite s e x, you have an APPEAL, if from the same gender you got the STYLE and if from both genders you have CHARM.:-)
8 Nov 09
I did once, in high school. It was silly. I became close to many girls. I stayed for a couple of years in an all-girls school. It was sorta funny, you know, teens & having these kinds of flings. You can't help it, because there are no boys. But anyway, nothing serious happened. Jut more of an admiration.
• India
8 Nov 09
Depend on the nature of the person
@udnisak (610)
• Australia
8 Nov 09
to be honest with you i have attracted to the person of same gender sometimes.. but of course not sexyally.. lol.. if our thoughts, comments, opinions are same for particular subject it is difficult to avoid his or her comapany.. i tend to hang with them and talk more about those topics.. and i think it is natuaral.. i think our friends can be consdered as the people we are attracted.. cant we..
• Malta
8 Nov 09
Yes of course, Sometimes I just wish my male friend was a female!