lost friend

India
November 9, 2009 6:45am CST
I miss my lost friend who was so dear to me. I miss roaming around with her. We used to walk for miles in chilled mornings and late evenings. We took adventure of exploring ridge forests in Delhi. We loved watching moon sitting on the Aravali rocks in the JNU campus and enjoying street food in market and remote dhabas [road side resturants]. With her I could go anywhere, be it movies, or cannaught place or just for a metro ride, or an aimless trip to Mandi house to see theatre people and enjoy samosas at the corner shop Aah all our joys vanished when both of us fell in love with two different guys with totally different perspective toward life. slowly our street enjoyments vanished, and our trips to forts, universities and dhabas were replaced by shopping malls and temples. our friendship succumbed to our search for life partners. At times, both of us revolted to this drastic change, thinking of it as too big too compromise but gradually we gave up. Now we do not even talk with each other, but every moment I miss her ever-joying company which can not be compensated for any thing
2 responses
@Apples24 (425)
• Singapore
11 Nov 09
I ma really sorry for you. But these things are part of life and you should try to find a solution for it. I know how hard it is to miss a friend and good times in the past, but you must know that it is part of life and try to overcome it
• India
11 Nov 09
you are right. But I just wonder what was my fault in all this. Is choosing a life partner a break away points from your friend circle? Why do friends envy when we get some body special in our lives? Is it because of the time we used to spend otherwise with friends get's reserved for that special one, or do the friends start thinking that particular fellow not eligible to maintain the circle any more just because he or she has chosen a life partner.
• United States
11 Nov 09
=( This reminds me of my long lost friend. She moved away when I was in the 8th grade and we have not seen each other since then! We were truly best pals. She was also my first friend and my best friend. I am still continuing to write letters to her but she rarely replies. =(