How can we fall in love with our partner over and over?

November 9, 2009 6:27pm CST
Many people said that the key to a long lasting relationship is to fall on love with the same person over and over again. But the question is, how can we do that? Can you share me some tips?LOL!! though I'm not yet married.. Just curious Tnx!
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@buping (954)
• China
10 Nov 09
hi mielshare, i am not married neither. as a woman, of course i like to have a lasting relationship with my husband to be. however, it is a tough question, when we get married, so many daily chores happen into our life, life no colirful and beautiful all the time. but i think a good tip for lasting relastionship is consideration of your partners.
@veejay19 (3591)
• India
10 Nov 09
The love that you are referring to is superficial love or infatuation.The first love is the true love because both the heart as well as the body are involved. this love usually lasts during the course of the discovery of each other by the couple.slowly that intense and passionate love is replaced by a more warmer but less intense feeling.However during the course of time even this gets eroded due to fights and differences of opinion amongst the couple and leads to a breakup which is unfortunately the case with many marriages and relationships nowadays. To avoid such a scenario, the couple should have mutual understanding amongst themselves and sort out their internal problems through dialogue and act with maturity.The woman should also keep herself presentable looking so that she will always look enticing to her man. Men are easily prone to straying and philandering as they quickly lose interest in their partner.Women are more faithful therefore they must spare no effort in keeping their mans interest in them alive and kicking.There are plenty of ways in doing this like always looking good, being well dressed and not dowdy, taking keen interest in her mans interests, cooking his favourite dishes etc.The husband also should take equal care not to lose his wifes interest in him , and should do his best to see that she is always interested in him.There are many ways in which both husband and wife and keep their love going strong and when you do get married you will discover ways and means to keep the fires of your mutual love keep burning throughout your wedded life.
• Philippines
10 Nov 09
Hi there miel... I'm not yet married but talking about how to maintain good relationship I think I can share something about it. To maintain a good relationship with your partner you need to understand the strength and weaknesses of each other. Be patient, show your care to your partner, Stay sweet with each other, Be open to your partner. Put color in your relationship, try to tell him that you love him atleast two to three times a day. It's sounds OA right but if you want to maintain the sweetness in your realtionship try to apply what I've said.. and you'll see the result.. He will love you more each day.. LOL
@SomeCowgirl (32264)
• United States
10 Nov 09
Make a list of things you love about your partner from the cute smirk he makes the color and feel of his skin... Listen to him and laugh with him... let him complain while rubbing his feet. Talk to him and find out what things he's interested in buying, help buy them for him, or buy it for him all yourself... It's interesting you mention this as I was just looking at a list of 101 ways to tell your husband you love him. I know your not married yet, but I bet you could use this list nonthelesser. I just married my husband, I'm looking for romantic ideas to surprise him with daily!