Bringing home baby

@ebsharer (5515)
United States
November 14, 2006 1:34pm CST
Everyone tells me things will come naturally, but HOW? I have never really been around kids. Baby will be here in the next month sometime. HELP!
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@canadabis1 (1953)
• Canada
14 Nov 06
Dont worry about it...yes your gonna get frustrated...and yes...your gonna find out about that last nerve...but coming from the winner of the Homer Simpson Father of the year award...ITS THE GREATEST THING EVER!!!...My boy is 14..and maaaaan can that kid stress ya out...plus there r new suprises everyday...some not so good...but most r incredible....the first word...the first step..first day at school...Any award or prize that youve gotten in the past...will seem like nuthing when your child makes the smallest accomplishments...When my boy gets awards at school and other stuff...it feels GREAT!!!...so...u gotta relax a lil...you'll get yoru groove really quick...and when these things happen...your gonna forget all about the morning you walked into your babies bedroom...and they've discovered how to remove thier own poopy diaper so they have something to play with....lol...It's gonna b great....:}
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Thank you for your comment it is reassuring
@shasha13 (134)
• United States
14 Nov 06
I recently became a first time mom as well (July 5th). I was never a kid person and I avoided babies at all cost. I never ever thought of being a parent and people who know me would tell you I was definitely not a maternal person. All that changed with the birth of my son. It really does come naturally. You just have to trust in that. The second you hold that baby it is like a switch that gets turned on. Granted there is a lot of trial and error. Not everyone is a "super mom" right off the bat. I can recommend two books that were so informative to me. The first one is "What to Expect the First Year" and the second is "The Happiest Baby on the Block". I also found an incredible network of Mom's online. They are incredible. It is called www.AmityMama.com. I encourage you to check them out.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
14 Nov 06
I am like what you were not, a maternal person. I have the what to expect the first year book and have probably read it 5 times so far. I will check out the happiest baby on the block. Thanks!!
@loved1 (5328)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Usually when you have a baby people come out of the woodwork and want to help. What specific issues are you worried about? I am a mom of three and would be glad to offer any advice to you! By the way, it really will come naturally. It is the weirdest thing but it does happen. Every mom was a first time mom at some point. You will do better than you think.
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
14 Nov 06
I guess I'm scared about everything. My family lives 1200 miles away and my husbands family (we live by them) is well odd to say the least. I guess I just don't know what to do or how to do it. I will keep you in mind when the baby comes thanks for the invite for more help.
@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
25 Nov 06
For what it's worth, I didn't find that things came naturally & the best advice I can give, is to not feel guilty if it doesn't. My baby had colic for the first four months of her life and I just couldn't figure out how to get her to stop crying. She never slept for more that 20-30 minutes at a time (day and night), and was miserable whenever she was awake. (Don't worry; this is unusual!) I couldn't tell my baby's cries apart for months, and I found it depressing to see how confidently mothers of other babies were dealing with them. The good news is that after 4 months, she started smiling and sleeping a bit more, and she's now a happy, responsible 7 year old. At the time I thought I was doing everything wrong, but I realize now that all the things I'd worried about didn't matter in the long run. I also liked the "What to Expect" series. Don't take everything they say as the final word, but they give a good overview of anything you might want to know as you're going along. Congratulations on your pregnancy!
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
29 Nov 06
thanks you for the comments.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
14 Nov 06
it does, ur baby will let u know when he/she is hungry, tired, and pooped. as a first time mom calling the dr. for everything is mandatory, ever 1 has done it so don't worry! it will come naturally!
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
14 Nov 06
Thanks
• Australia
29 Nov 06
Just ask all the questions in hospital im sure you will be fine they are easy to look after just need some love and care hopefully you have help from your family never say no to help
@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thank you
• United States
25 Nov 06
you will probably surprise yourself.... its wonderful I have 6 @ home and 7 in total i would have loved more but hubby said NO more lol
@beckyomg1 (6756)
• United States
25 Nov 06
it will be like riding a bike youll never forget how to do it. it will be alright and youll love it.
• United States
29 Nov 06
i was only 19 when i had my first things do come natural once you see the baby i do not know how thats just how it happens