What will you response if people asking when will you get pregnant?
By rirbry
@rirbry (353)
Malaysia
November 10, 2009 7:34am CST
I had been married for almost a year and still doesnt had a sign being a mom, everbody being so negative and accused me purposely planning not having children because doesnt want to lose my body shape and any others thing, sometime it does break my heart seing other people that get married after me has already get pregnant and deliver already, but i believe a child is a gift from God, so what will you response if people asking you when will you get pregnant?
3 responses
@rj4pau (215)
• Malaysia
10 Nov 09
Firstly congratulation for getting married Rirbry... eventhough almost a year ago. Secondly, it is still early for people to expect to conceive as like you said a child is a gift from God. It can be today, tomorrow or even 10 years from now. But that's always reason for everything that happen..only God knows. Just ignore all those accusations. Good luck to you for the coming years... Keep trying... ;-)
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
21 Nov 09
Alot of people don't realize how hard be coming pregnant can be for some. Especially if they've had a easy time. It's hard to explain to some why you've not had a baby yet, or what your wishes are towards having children. If your having health issues that are delaying the pregnancy process, clearly state that. Tell them, inreguards to your asking about why you've not become a mother yet, it's due to some personal health issues I'd rather not discuss. If your just not ready for children, tell them, that you want to enjoy this newlywood time with your husband and enjoy life before it's time for you to settle down and share your life with a baby. That also you want to give everything you can to your family. A child is a gift from god, and i feel when he feels it's the right time for you, it will happen. He has a way of making everything work out. Best wishes!
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
17 Nov 09
It is lovely that you got married one year ago. Congratulations. It can take many couples two or three years for the lady to get pregnant. I think that the first year or two of a marriage can be about enjoying each others company. Then in a few years it can be superb to have children.
Stress can prevent a lady from getting pregnant. I know that being relaxed helps a lady to get pregnant. You could attempt to find out the most fertile time of your monthly cycle. I know some ladies that have got pregnant whilst using fertility medicine.
I think it would be in your best interests to ignore people's comments. A child is a special gift and you have plenty of time. Hopefully you will get pregnant and get yourself a dear little baby boy or girl. If you stop worrying and relax you might soon get pregnant. Good luck.
