why him?why her?

November 10, 2009 11:29am CST
when we see two people who are deeply in love with each other, we often think to ourselves that it makes sense becoz they have so much in common with one another, either thet share the same interest, or else they go to school together,etc but however, what is the truth of loving the particular person? in my opinion, love is just a mystery,we cant really explain it, nor can we force or predict it, the heart has its reasons which reaosn cant understand, true love comes from the deepest part of our being. so in ur all opinion, why him?why her?do u all agree what i said?
2 responses
• United States
4 Dec 09
I agree that it is definitely hard to try to even begin to explain why one loves another. We can't force love for it has to grow by itself, neither can we predict it, like you said. Love is blind and so it doesn't discriminate. I think we fall for someone because we find that we can get along with them and there's something unexplainable about them that makes you care so much. Sometimes you just can't find the words to describe it.
• United States
11 Nov 09
Yes, I sometimes wonder too. Why does she like him but not the other guy? Love can be... unpredictable, unbearable, uncontainable, and very hard to understand. Love... can be so frustrating up until the point that we don't really care and just let it happen and make the best of our heart and feelings.