Fall in love at first sight?Or,as days go on,so will your love?Which do u prefer

November 10, 2009 4:09pm CST
'Excellence is an art won by training and habituation. We do not act rightly because we have virtue or excellence, but we rather have those because we have acted rightly. We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." I wanna say love is an art won by knowing and habituation. We don't love anyone so deeply because they are beautiful or excellent, but we rather have those because we know someone step by step. We got used to them. If we can't see them around, we tend to miss them. So, love, then, is not an feeling but a habit. You might be totally disagree with me. haha, please don't mind! I am just saying. What do you think?
3 responses
• Portugal
13 Sep 10
i think that love first is a feeling^^ not bcs someone is pretty or not but when we talk with that person and be near we feel it^^ i know this bcs me i usually dont fall for very handsome guys^^ only those that make me feel happy and cared^^ i dont care their face at all^^ and love is not an habit bcs there is this boy that loves me since long ago, he is so sweet and we talk and all and i just couldnt fall in love with him yet^^ so for me love is a feeling but sure it need to be cared and cared or it might just disappear^^
@sulsisels (1685)
• United States
12 Nov 09
Hi hiddenwing..I have to say that I agree with you..Love does become a habit. I think that when two people meet, in the beginning you are truly "in love" in every sense of the word. As time goes on and you marry or cohabitate, that starry eyed love begins to fade and you then build on a partnership. I think you will always love that person, but the type of love changes. It is a natural happening and I think most couples would agree..Of course I'm sure there is the rare exception where two people are still madly in love many many years later but it is not the rule. You become so used to having that person around that you can't even imagine them not being there, like a habit. It is not a bad thing, just human nature. Sure we all wish the romance would never die but lets face it, it does. Habits are hard to break!! yes?
@dipak06 (913)
• India
10 Nov 09
friend ..i have a little experience in it.i dont think it is rather possible to have love just in eye contacts.it is just infatuation that can catch attention....and after a few weeks they can well realize this.the bond can come along strong bond of friendship which make both one careful to each other..