Do you think that shy peoples can find love to net?

@icesmile (7172)
Romania
November 12, 2009 9:45am CST
Do you think Internet dating has helped shy people find love? I have also seen many people becoming closer through the net and for those who are very reserved and shy always feel better talking to the phone or net. I think dating on the net is risky, but, it does open you up to being able to meet a lot more people than you would at your city. Many people who would have trouble saying personal things face to face, or saying much of anything at all,can converse through the Internet and share thoughts and ideas with someone. That way when they finally meet them in person they already 'know' them to some degree, and so will be less nervous in that encounter. Do you know somebody who really find his love to net? is possible?
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• Philippines
12 Nov 09
I have some friends who found their love ones through internet... and yes it became successful. That's why I believe that anybody can find love through internet. But ofcourse you must be smart enough to avoid scammer. Online dating is suitable not only for shy people but also for those who are too busy.
@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
12 Nov 09
Good luck for your friends, but i think that is not so easy to find honest peoples to net....here are persons who want to be what they can t be in real...
• Philippines
15 Nov 09
That's why you need to be smart ;) You see, let yourself fall in love to someone online is braver than falling in love to someone in person...
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@icesmile (7172)
• Romania
15 Nov 09
yes, maybe you right, sometimes i really need to be smart..or not?
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
If there is anything I have learned about love, it is that you can find it in the most unlikely places. It is true that people who are generally shy find it a lot easier to find love over the net. It is less threatening of you do not have to go see and talk to the person in person just to establish a rapport with them. You are definitely correct when you said that it is not without serious risks. I have read of stories of people who got murdered by people they met over the net. I guess like in any thing in life, the key is to always protect yourself. trying to find true love should never be at the expense of our lives and safety.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
i think so because shy people are very much afraid of expressing themselves in front of the people they choose to love. so they're really not into courtship or the telling the truth part but they would always wait for what they called "right time" until they find themselves regretful because the person they loved already found somebody else. :D too bad.
• Malaysia
12 Nov 09
i think it is able to help those shy people find love. i have seen one of my friend who is very shy to meet a gf over net. he is very shy that dont dare to talk with a girl face to face. actually he is very gentle and nice, but nobody knows about it as he is too shy and every girl cant communicate with him last few months, he told me he met a gf finally through internet. he said it is very comfortable for him to talk without face to face,and it also give him some time to build up his confidence to meet the girl at last. the love occur slowly between them and at last he decide to pursue his happiness with happiness. he said luckily he is using internet to start the relationship, or else the girl will reject him if she meet him first at such a shy and timid image person. now he is still so happiness and always go out with his gf. best wishes for him and his gf and also all the mylotters. first image is very important to know a person. if the image is good enough then the relationship just can continue and maybe develop a different path of love relationship~~
@elitess (5072)
• Ipswich, England
12 Nov 09
Hello Ice Smile.. I don't necessarily that only shy people can find love on the net, but also regular people - i know a couple that met playing "mu", an online game and are now leaving happily together, and neither one was shy, that was just the way they met...