just want to know your ipinion about my love story

November 12, 2009 11:11pm CST
i have a bf we are already 4 years, suddenly we always argue, when he is mad he always scoulded me, txting me bad words, or even worst,,,, i cant help it,,just want to know your opinion even where that to serious in our relationship, i would give up or not on his attitude.... hope you can tell me your advice thanks a lot....
5 responses
• United States
4 Dec 09
I think that you should ask him why he's so angry all the time now especially if he wasn't like that before. You have to figure out what is going on that's making you guys suddenly argue so much now. Maybe something is going on with him that's really taking a huge toll on him and he can't find any other way to express it besides anger. I would say to just ask him and be truthful about what you're concerned about.
• Indonesia
14 Nov 09
i wanna ask u,when he didn't mad with u,what he did to u?he cares u?loves u?there's so many question for u before i give advise.but if u only just tell that story,yeah as soon as possible...it's better u to leave him. that's my advise
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
13 Nov 09
hi welcome to mylot. uhhmmm... you both have to really work things out before it's already too late. four years is already considered too long, i hope you can have some time in order for you guys to really deal with it... i think that your in the stage from where you find yourselves too familiar with each other. set some distance and try to think of new ways in order to add spice in your relationship.
@luckyke (56)
• China
13 Nov 09
hi,definitely you should break up with your bf,because his attitude is really unacceptable! i think if you talk to him now and maybe he will change his attitude shortly, but maybe someday he will repeat his bad attitude to you, because he has been bored of your relationship. this is my opinion. if i am in such a situation, i will definitely break up with my bf.
• China
13 Nov 09
I'm sorry to hear that, joan! But as per your words, you were in good relationship in the past. And it worsens suddenly these days? If yes, I think you're supposed to find out what happened. The reason is important. According to the reason, you will know what you should do then. To forgive him, bear him, or others. Anyway, I hope you everything will be better soon!