What will you feel, if you think you are not appreciated?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
November 13, 2009 3:26am CST
In life, appreciation is one of the best factor that can contribute to a personality development. This is also the trait that can add-up to build a person character. Sometimes, if the person is not appreciated, he/she might feel that the things he/she does is not important at all. Like for example, you are trying to buy those things that you think, can give happiness to you family. Let say, you try to buy a new mobile phone for your sister since the mobile phone she's using is not functioning well. You have decided to give her a new as your gift but she just refuse to use it, instead she just kept it in a cabinet. Then she just told you that, perhaps you should not buy the mobile, you should just keep the money with you instead.
Really, sometimes, the small appreciation is the least thing that we can give to our loved ones. Nevertheless, we never realize that we are depriving them the joy of giving that it may bring.
Hence, there are times, you might think, dont buy anything instead because they will not appreciate it at least.
How about you, will you do the same - that - you will not buy anything for them since they will not appreciate it at least? What will you feel, if you think you are not appreciated?
2 responses
@sayo13 (414)
• India
24 Jan 12
hello airasheila,
i can understand how you are feeling but yes i agree that appreciation is required in order to make you feel happy, confident , and even to give the feedback of whether you have done the right thing and how much you have achieved.
if i would be in your place i would have felt bad but i would have learnt a lesson that giving someone something which you feel is the most important need for that person that particular time might not be true always.you gave the example of gifting cell phone to your sister which you have thought was important need for her that time, may be that is not true for her.its good to give surprise gifts to your dear ones but yes confirm it before with the person either directly or indirectly whether for her/him is it that much important or requirement for that time being??
if you get a positive response go for it if not then postpone the idea of gifting for the time being.
@vidhi169 (108)
• India
24 Jan 12
It can't be expressed in words. It's the worst feeling ever. I had faced such kind of situation then my friend suggested me to join personality development courses. I have joined that classes and it worked. It helps me to improve my overall personality. I'll also suggest you to join it. Hope it will be helpful for you.
http://www.personalitydevelopmentcourses.in
