15 Nov 09
Hello, Naren, and welcome to Mylot. Being married doesn't switch off your feelings, and many people fall in love with others after marriage. I certainly wouldn't describe loving another woman - or man, in my case - as a sin, because we can't help how we feel. However, if the relationship becomes physical, that's different. And while you may say 'it's only love,' our emotions can carry us away and 'only love' becomes and affair before you know it. While it may be a comfort for someone in an unhappy or loveless marriage to know that someone out there really loves them, in the long run, it brings more problems than it solves. I'm speaking from past experience here!