Will you feel sad if your friend don't care for u saying that I am busy....

it depends on the level of your friendship.. If before he was not a kind of what you are seeing now? then maybe? there is something wrong about it..communication is very important in matters like this.. I guess your friend must give you even a little time to sit and talk with you to patch or clarify things if any .Even for at least realize the essence of being a real friend to you?as you to him.. His work or other activities although busy? CAN never replace a friend like you..your commitment as a true friend to him and it is priceless.. but for me? i will not be happy if am to be treated that way too..I gonna talk to my friend and let him explain his views and problems if any.. then I will express all i wanted to say so that after the conversation? whatever will be the outcome was settled already..

Of course, I would be hurt. I mean, I would've thought that they were my friends and all. An actual friend wouldn't say stuff like that but at least just say something like "I'm sorry, I really wish I could talk to you right now". At least put some heart into giving a reason why they're busy. But yeah, I would definitely get hurt if they forgot my birthday especially if I was expecting some sort of birthday wish from them. They should definitely at the very least call to say something and not just ignore me or avoid me completely. I think I would reconsider them as a friend though. I mean, I would ask what was going on with them if all this avoiding and everything was something so sudden, but if it happened gradually, then I think I would definitely reconsider our friendship and question whether we really are as close as I ever thought. I think in your case, you should still definitely try to contact them and don't give up just yet, at least not until you get an actual answer that lets you know whether this is just a phase that they are goin through, or if this is going to continue and that you shouldn't be friends with them anymore. But until then, keep trying to contact them, but don't annoy them either. Still be respectful and if they don't want to tell you exactly what is going on, let it be.

If it was my boyfriend he said he was busy and even forgot my brithday, I will be very angry, because it proved that he didn't care about me. but for my other friends, I won't be angry, because they have their life, and mabye they really busy to forget something, it's ok.